37 weeks pregnant, having s*x where im on top, hurts?

Question

it goes in all the way when i sit down. is this destroying my cervix? what happens if i keep doing this? (its the only position that doesnt hurt too bad)

Answer 1

It isnt destroying it at all.

Some women just find it uncomftable - you seem to be one that finds it somewhat severe.

Obviously, you cant exactly describe the pain to me but you might want to pay a visit to your gyno.

Good luck on the impending birth! x

Answer 2

I wouldn't worry about it. It's not destroying your cervix. Your cervix is just very tender right now. It is probably starting to dialate and when you have s*x and bump the cervix, it's gonna hurt a little. I have the same problem and I just go a little easier when I start hurting. I figure i'm just helping things along. Some people are actually lucky enough to have s*x put them into labor, I've never been one and I've tried like crazy with each of my kids. The closer you get to delivery the more uncomfortable you will probably get so just go easy and relax I seriously doubt your going to have any problems. Good luck!

Answer 3

i have the same problem , but not same position .

mine is actually the edge of the bed position that hurts .

its usual for a girl to feel discomfort during pregnancy s*x,

but if it keeps hurting, deffinately ask your doctor .

Something bad could be happening , and you dont want that .

Answer 4

I'm 13 weeks and it hurts like you said but only doggy and missionary for me. On top is the only way I can for now. Now I am nervous that as I get further along, that all positions will be painful. :(

good luck

Answer 5

I don't know why it hurts..have you ask your Doctor?

Answer 6

I am around 33 weeks pregnant and s*x has been hurting me for a good 4. we do it doggy.. I like it best this way but s*x just hurts.. I asked the doctor and she said that it was normal for discomfort but didn't give me an explanation.. basically if you don't feel like doing it.. then dont! I basically have a desire for s*x zero percent for the time while my boyfriend thinks he needs it 3 times a day.. literally one day with no s*x kills him.. it should all go away when you pop.. at least I hope so not sure first kid but yeah I know how you feel and my best advice is just don't do it.. its uncomfortable and not fun for you in any way trust me I know how it goes..  if you are having problems with going dry try lube I was having that problem but sometimes it just seems like my v****a tightens and it just hurts no matter what... so your not alone

Answer 7

its not destroying your cervix. Dont worry about that. At 37 weeks, even if it did your baby is full term so its ok to deliver. But s*x is fine as long as your water isnt broken. yes its normal to be uncomfortable, BUT if it doesnt feel good, then dont do it. Try doggie with your torso lifted a little instead of on all 4's. This keeps any pressure from being on your stomach, plus the upward angle makes penetration more shallow and shouldnt hurt as bad. Fool around til you find what works. Once you have the baby you wont be able to have s*x for several weeks so enjoy it as much as you can now.

Answer 8

don't ride on top , it may be discomforting for the foetus also ,