'Boyfriend' Ignoring Me..?

Question

hi :)

well about 3 weeks ago i finally got together with someone i have been seeing for quite a while..

anyway it was going fine, and i saw him every other day for the 3weeks but i saw him on wednesday and hes ignored my calls and texts since then and i know he'l come up with some excuse.. what am i supposed to do?

Answer 1

ignore him for a bit he will prob get insecure without your attention and start texting or ringing you.

if he does it for a second time get rid  

Answer 2

confront him, and tell him its concerning & bothering you.

and when he makes an excuse,

just act like he never said it, and keep on going.

Answer 3

i am a guy as per i know,,,,, we guys feel very jealous and uncomfortable when any particular girl ignores us,, so start be around him and keep ignoring him but don't ignore him completely when ever he wants to talk to u,, talk to him but for a very short time be with him but for a very little time .. but u should do all this with some intelligence he should not come to know ur doing all this willingly don't show him ur dieing for him. try it  

Answer 4

Ignore him back back even if you have to sit on your hands to stop yourself from texting. See what happens then.  

Answer 5

Guess this guy is not interested anymore.

Best to move on and find someone who does know how to communicate.

Answer 6

Let him write you, because if you keep on, he's loving the attention. Play the same game.

Answer 7

ignore him right back... you don't need his drama..

Answer 8

Hes playing with you plain simple!!!  Playing games and the more attention you give the more he is winning!!!  Just leave him alone and find someone else that isn't so childish, then again most guys play that game!  As you get older you'll get better at it and know how to play them right back!

Answer 9

dump him

Answer 10

ask him. don't let him do that c**p to you.

Answer 11

i think that you should give him sometime to himself ( about 3-4 days) then arrange a date with him and talk with him about what is going on with him, ask him how he feels about you or what? tell him he shouldnt be acting like this because hes hurting you.

Answer 12

Frustrating ain't it!??

My girlfriend does this too and it really pisses me off, especially as if shes with me and someone rings or texts, she will automatically answer or reply - but with me, I'm lucky if she replies - unless she needs someone and wants something

So the way I play it, is give her a taste of her own medicine - i switch my phone off for 24 hours, only turning it on when i need to, and there is always a load of missed calls and msgs.

You should try it and c if that works, best bet is to either a) leave him to it - he will reply when he can or b) play him at his own game (and win!)

Answer 13

Psssst , move on he's hooked up with someone else. Move on, ignore his call and texts. he is with another girl.

Answer 14

Don't waste your time even if he's hot or whatever.  I just had this problem after a 3 year relationship and I left even though it was hard.  He, of course, came crawling back, but it was too late, I found someone way better!!! :)  You will too.  It's totally not worth it if he's doing it this early on.

Answer 15

if your his first lady...then hes nervous not to mess anything up and doesnt know wht to do...

if you not his first and you know he has experience then your doing sumthing...

are you calling him to much??

can you get to talkative sumtimes?

are you giving him sum alone time with his buddys?

we need sumthing like that so we dont feel pressured to be with you all the time.. =]

good luck!!!!! =] sorry if i come on to strong.. =]

Answer 16

Kick him to the curb. If he was into your he wouldn't be ignoring you. Find someone who won't ignore you.