4 kids, and my wife wants another?

Question

Ive three sons

Ryan who's 14

Liam who's 12

&& Chris who's 11,

and ive a daughter who's 6 called Madeline

We cope with 4 kids, and id never swap my life with anyone, we both have great jobs, that allows us to spend alot of time with the kids

but my wife wants another baby

After Maddie i thought my baby days were over, and i dont think we could survive with another child, ive told her this but all she's thinking of is the cutie cutie baby showers and clothes!

Whadda i say to her, we're in our 30s and i dont think we should have another baby?

Help..

Answer 1

You have enough!  It is morally wrong to have more than two kids.  You are using up the earth's resources for your own ego.  Enough already!

Answer 2

tell her you don't want another one you have to be honest or else you will just be very unhappy remind her of the late nights the multiple feedings ugh the diapers and the bill.

Answer 3

Some women just like having babies around but I don't think that justifies having more. I would concentrate on the one's you already have.

Answer 4

She thinks her only value is being a mommy.  Get a vasectomy, you have enough kids.

Answer 5

Tell ur wife u don't want any more kids......she needs to respect that just like if she didn't want any more. It goes both ways. Good luck    

Answer 6

You just have to be honest & tell her that you just don't want another child. Tell her that you are looking forward to the time when the kids are grown and that you are her can spend time alone.  

Answer 7

Try to speak to her in woman language, incorporate any future plans that you might have. College tuition! are you able to put 5 kids through college?? kids are not just about baby showers and little clothes.