4 ks preg bf threatens 2 kll hmslf if i dnt gt an abrtn my bro and 3 frnds died this yr. i dnt wnt 1 wht 2 do?

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FYI: IT'S WRITTEN LIKE THIS BECAUSE I ONLY HAD A LIMITED AMOUNT OF CHARACTERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I CAN'T BARE TO LOSS ANYONE ELSE THIS HAS BEEN A HARD YEAR FOR ME... I FEEL LIKE GOD BROUGHT ME THIS GIFT AFTER ALL OF THOSE LOSES THIS YEAR TO HELP ME COPE.(HE LOST HIS MOM ALSO AND HE SAYS HE WANTS TO BE WITH HER)... I AM SO HURT BY THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

Well honey you need to make a very important decision.

Whose life do you value more, that of an unborn baby whose face you have never even seen or that of your boyfriends.

Your boyfriend is probably just bluffing to scare you into having an abortion but I still wouldn't take the risk with it as people can do pretty extreme things in times of stress as this.

You also need to find out whether he is going to be there for you if you do get an abortion as this can be a very emotional experience for a woman.

If you guys have a strong relationship you will able to talk this through....remember even if you get an abortion you can still have babies later in life, perhaps when he is abit more ready for it.

You also need to think that if worst case scenario is to happen and you and he breaks it off with you then you are stuck being a single mum and believe me thats not easy or pleasant!

I also think it sounds like your boyfriend could do with some counselling, fair enough he obviously doesnt want to be a father but threatening suicide to his girlfriend is a pretty drastic move.

Hope it all works out honey, don't make any quick decisions with this talk it over and have a good think ok!

xo

Answer 2

a little much for me...  

Answer 3

First of all it is your decission second of all if he didnt want to have a baby he would have protected yourself and his...Honey all I can say is I have been there with a b/f like him. I have 2 beautiful kids and you dont want to go through life thinking about a kid you could have...I believe abortions are wrong one because you werent protecting...I hope you will take my advise and keep your baby and explain to your b/f that it is a joy to have a baby around, it does take a lot but to hear the first of everything is amazing.

Answer 4

Are you willing to KILL your own child. Could you handle the side affects and the after part of the abortion. It is alot harder than you think. You think that losing your brother was bad, killing your own child is a horrible thing and if he doesnt want a baby, then give it up for adoption that way someone who cant have a baby can finally have one. Also you have to ask yourself why he would kill himself over this. then you need to take him to a doctor as there is something wrong up stairs. Good luck and i hope you deciede to keep the baby. It was not the babies fault that he/she was created, dont punish the baby. I have read in numerous books that having an abortion can cause you to not have kids again. Sorry you had to go through this.

Answer 5

if you want that baby keep it, and as for your bf, it is harrasment say he is going to kill himself to make you do anything.  One of my bfs did that and they forced a restraining order on him and he had to go to therapy.  I suggest you stay with a friend, because if he is suicidal he is too selfish to have a child!

Answer 6

Go see a therapist, this is beyong my scope...

Answer 7

Sounds like your boyfriend is very immature.

Answer 8

I'm so sorry you're having to go through this.

Call the proper authorities to do what you can so that he doesn't do this terrible thing.

Answer 9

abortion is something you can never take back and abortion would take the life of your baby. your baby is the inncoent one and you and your child deserve better then abortion call Birthright 1-800-550-4900 God Bless choose life.

Answer 10

let him s***w himself he's just bluffing call him on it i think he's begin childess have your kid think about if you have a an abortion and God strikes him down you wont have any one at leas if he drops dead you'll have your baby

Answer 11

Sounds like an empty threat if you ask me. You should do what is right for you. Don't let anyone boss you into an a abortion!!!!! If your boyfriend loves you he wouldn't be making such horrible threats. I'm sorry you are so confused.