4 months pregnant should i forgive ??

Question

i am 4 months pregnant with my boyfriends baby he cheated well kissed another girl on me last weekend we broke up but we got back together i love him 2 bits and hes sorry and promised he wont do it again or i am finished with him..what do you think? am i stupid for taken him back?

Answer 1

Forget him and focus on the miracle bundle of joy you have on the way, get a great job and provide for your baby and you'll find the man of your dreams if you respect your kid enough. Cos' only a man that respects your respect for your kid loves you enough to deserve you.

Answer 2

Most people say, "just leave the jerk"  You and I both know- it's not that easy- ESPECIALLY when you are pregnant with their child!!!!!!!!!!!  I have a rule and i follow it.

ONCE IS A MISTAKE.  TWICE IS A HABIT.

1.  the trust could ruin your relationship- or rather lack of trust

2.  he could just learn to 'hide' what he is doing better

3.  did he just come out and tell you? or did you find out on your own?

4.  Be thankful it was only a kiss!!!!!!!!

5.  You can try and make it work- just don't be naive about it!

best of luck!

Answer 3

I wouldn't leave him for the sake of your child! its always nice to have a father in your life....you don't have to be intimate with him but you can be on good terms....

tell him if he continues to act like this he is not only hurting you but the baby...

its pretty common for men to do this before a baby,once he sees this baby he will realize how special you are to him and how much he loves you!

Please don't leave him on bad terms! Be peaceful for your baby!!!

Answer 4

I have a friend who experienced this. Leave him now and take care of your bub. You are only 4 months now can you imagine in 6,9...... If he loves you he will work hard at being a good person so you will take him back

Answer 5

You are wanting things to work out, but to be brutally honest- not that I like being that way- he doesn't seem to have the same agenda as you.

Seems like he loves to make babies with as many as will have him!

And that's not likely to change, love, just because you get him down an aisle.

Answer 6

I have always believed the saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." He may promise to change and that it will never happen again. But, to be honest with you that is what most of them say. You need to get rid of him and focus on your baby that is on it's way.