My 10 year old son had his birthday party. I was reamed by my mom that I didn't act like a parent when I put the fixings on the table for dinner (lunchmeat, cheese, bread) and expected my 7 year old to make her own sandwich. My sister created plates of food for her 7 and 10 year old, and was lauded as parenting. Am I expecting too much of a 7 year old girl (to be able to fix a plate of food for herself?). I figured that there was nothing that needed cutting, and she probably wouldn't eat the salads or corn pudding anyways. What is a good expectation in this situation? BTW, my 10 year old had no problem creating his own plate, of course.
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