My partner split up with his wife over 3 year ago. His children who are 7 and 15 stay with us every other weekend from Friday to Monday, and every Sunday on the weeks we don't have them all weekend. I have a good relationship with them. However, the 7 year old (7 years 6 months), most often will dirty himself during the day. This happens at home and when he is with us, and is happening at school too. Sometimes it is a case of him not cleaning himself properly, other times he is properly emptying his bowels into his pants.
He will happily stay in the dirty underwear until we finally smell him. When we ask him if he has he totally denies it until he no longer can (ie, he is about to undress). We have tried talking to him about it, we have tried shouting and we have tried ignoring it and just dealing with it calmly. Nothing seems to work. This weekend we have had to deal with it each day. I would welcome any advice on the best way to deal with this. Thank you.
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