7 yr old just caught us!!?

Question

I need advice ASAP, how do I handle this? What do we say. He is 7, just walked in on us having s*x...not such a great position to see. The door WAS locked(he used a key). He wasn't inside before we started, he was outside with his cusin.

Answer 1

Thats life!  Unless he asked question why worry about it.  He is 7, tell him you were kissing, and change the subject, he will forget about it

Answer 2

First of all you probably shouldn't be having s*x in the first place if there are children up and running around.

Tell him about the "Birds and the Bee's".  

Good luck!

Answer 3

Next time wait until he's asleep.   Locking him outside so you can have s*x seems really wrong.   Don't say anything unless he asks and then just be honest, in an age appropriate way.

Answer 4

jst tell them it was sme kinda exercize that doctor has asked you to do before you sleep..and it need his fatherz help in it..........try to get that incident out f his mind ....

Answer 5

It's a good chance to talk to him about the things he will be experiencing shortly. It's also a good chance to talk about privacy.

I suspect, to the people who question the key, it was an interior door, which have the little hole. My family has those and we keep a spare in a kitchen drawer in case someone accidentally locks the door as they walk out.

Answer 6

What the f*ck......... some people dont have all the time in the world to choose when they can have s*x....... So first of all it was ok that you were having s*x.......

I would just sit down and try to explain in a "child friendly" way that mom and dad were doing a grown up thing that people do when they are married and in love......

GOOD LUCK its akward but it will be ok :)

EDIT: Alot of parents sleep in the same room as there young children ....... also children wake alot at this age due to nightmares and sleep terrors

Answer 7

ohhhhh boy.. well you definitely can't lie to him and he is going to have to learn about it sooner then later.. You would be surprised what kids get out of Tv these days and just listening to grown ups talk when parents don't think they are listening...... Try your hardest to bring it to a 7 yr olds level but the more you wait the more awkward its going to be... Just be a little more careful next time when your trying to sqeeze in your adult time......Sorry just glad it isnt me :)

Answer 8

It's sort of hard to understand why a seven year old was locked out of your bedroom during waking hours and had a key to your room. Something is not right here. Why would you lock the door but let them have a key? why are you making out in the daytime anyway with kids running about, and more also with other peoples kids in the house! I'd be furious if my kid went to someones house and they left them and went off to go at it. You have to control that!!

Best stick to doing it at night after they are asleep.

Tell him you were doing private things and that's why the door was locked. And then don't do it again. What if you'd fallen asleep after and they'd been a fire? who was watching the kids? the cousin? how old is the cousin that they let them get a key and go in your room? not old enough to be in control of the situation.