9 year olds with boyfriends?

Question

i was just wondering why when four year olds have "boyfriends" or "girlfriends", it's cute. but when they turn like nine and they have boyfriends and girfriends it becomes wrong... i mean the four-year olds are even younger and it's not frowned-upon !?

Answer 1

cause at 4 u don't really understand it and u r just copying others at 9 u start learning the meaning of it and society sees it as the younger u r to get a boyfriend the sooner u r to get into other things 13-17 is bout the time ppl should start dating my fiance has an 11 yr old and i think 13 is to soon i think she should wait till she is 16 but i grew up in a stricter family and its not my spot to decide when she should date or what ever  

Answer 2

It's like getting married on the playground. It's nothing. They don't know anything at that age.

Around 11 they start thinking they know stuff and don't really know anything about relationships until at least college.

Answer 3

at 4 they probably still go eww boys but at 9 they don't. also 9 is a beginning of a kid kinda and 4 is like a baby. tech speaking. 9 yr olds hang round with older crews and could be raped and took advantage on. 9 is stupid so young to have 1 it must be older but the reason we def don't freak out when it's 4 is because it's nothing it's innconet at 9 it is an actually bf no matter how young or old he is. and it's ridiculous older it isn't so much and then u gotta think about age gaps cause we don't want them dating a 9 yr old do we ? then when u adults free roam harmless cause your adults as long as u don't enter teens like 18 17 or watch very carefully where u tread as u treading on egg shells and thin ice. people that do anything to 4 are just pedos anyway and should be burnt  

Answer 4

Who said it was wrong?  They have this word they learned from the big people around them, and they see how happy it makes the big people feel, so they 'play house' for a while in their lives.  If you don't put too much attention on it, it will likely fade off into childhood memories.  If they change to playing 'doctor', however.... :P

Answer 5

because, although sad, 9 year olds are exposed to things like s*x. YES, that young.

and they try to act grown up and kiss.

they might wanna act all mature and start doing things they shouldnt be doing.

when 4 year olds have boyfriends and girlfriends, they're still so innocent. and it is cute. :P

hope i helped! (:

Answer 6

no too young

Answer 7

Because 9 year olds know what's up and typically know what couples do (kissing, s*x, stuff like that) where 4 year olds don't at all.  They are so innocent and there is no way 2 four year olds would end up doing something inappropriate, where 9 year olds could.

Answer 8

so? who prevented you from growing up and expressing your feelings?