A Female Friend once told me this, and I want all Married & Divorced Womens Opinion on this!?

Question

She said the following:

"when I get married, I will do it anyway, anywhere, and however my husband wants it. cause I'd rather fullfill all his fantasies than have him cheat on me to fullfill his fantasies or hire a pro$+i+u+e.

Do you Ladies Agree? or Disagree?

Answer 1

You can be the best you can be and do everything to please someone but it does not mean one woman will ever be enough if he ends up being a philander. Some men like variety even if if your the most beautiful and sexually pleasing woman in the world. If he likes the excitement and attention from someone else and if he does not have good solid morals and the character to believe and desire to be faithful to her nothing good she ever does for him will matter.

Answer 2

Doing all that stuff doesn't guarantee that a man wont cheat.

Answer 3

I agree, but it is still no guarantee that he won't cheat.  If you've married someone who doesn't value you and the vows you took then nothing you do will keep them from cheating.

first you marry someone whose values are the same or similar to yours, then you tend to your relationship and that includes all aspects of it from the emotional to the sexual.  And BOTH of you have to be invested in the relationship.

Answer 4

Um to a point.  I mean my man knows there is a couple things I just won't do, but there are a lot of things I wouldn't normally try but I would for him and vice versa.  I think everyone should have some kind of limits though, because depending on who you marry, you could end up doing something you really don't want to and may cause more damage than not doing it.

My example would be a threesome.  I would never do one, because I am way to jealous plus I think the whole scenario would be awkward.  I think I would resent my husband if I did this for him, which would cause a lot of damage in ones relationship.

Answer 5

YES!!! My Husband can't say there is anything i wont do, and please believe there is always a women out there that will do what you wont. My husband does the same because it goes both ways.  

Answer 6

No offense to your friend, but that's ridiculous.  Men and women living all kinds of marriages experience infidelity.  And you know, there are alot of men out there who don't want s*x constantly.  Some men over compensate in other ways for their lack in that department as to confuse you.

Answer 7

theres some truth to that but u shouldnt blindly follow just to keep them happy.. at the end of they day they may grow tired of u.. and the fact that u wont say no.. they may want a challenge or a change of scenery .. there are no guarantees ..

Answer 8

Your female friend is very naive if she imagines that fulfilling all his sexual fantasies is the only thing required of her in order for her husband to remain loyal. It is part of the picture, yes, and a very important part, but there is much, much more involved in keeping a man wholly satisfied. The beginning stages of cheating are rarely sexual ... she needs to consider how she's going to address meeting his mental, emotional and psychological needs in order to be a good and highly desirable wife too.

Answer 9

I beleive in pleasing my man but there should be limits to when and where. But i do understand where she is coming from because if you dont make your man happy who or what will.

Answer 10

If he wants to cheat, he will, whether you give him it 24/7 or not.  Men cheat because of curiosity not because of hunger.

Answer 11

Disagree. That's not how it works. Where's the part about a relationship ? It's not all about s*x.  

Answer 12

I totally agree with that, but it still doesn't guarantee anything.