A Problem With 2 Brothers??

Question

m in a dilema.. my brother is 16 and he sometimes hangs about with my next door neighbours grandson who is also 16 (daniel) .. ok moving on! I am 18 and i go out to our local club every thursday night (everyone goes ther) so the first time i went i met daniels biggest brother (steven) we started chattin cus i hadnt seen him in ages.. stevens 24 and drop dead gorgeous! so we got chattin and he told me he was staying at his grandma's house who lives next door to me.. so we walked home together and ended up kissing.. we meet up every week now for the past 6 or 7 weeks we have never had s*x and he has never tried to have s*x with me we just fumble about.. recently i got a message on my fone.. they kept txtin then i found out that i was stevens youngest brother daniel my brothers friend he said he really really liked me and that he would love something to happen between us.. i felt realy bad bcus daniels realy lovely but he is a spitting image of steven! he texted me for days solid so i just told him about me and steven! i said that it wasnt serious we just met up every week! but daniel took it the wrong way and isnt talking to me now.. i also met stevens friends and they said that steven really likes me and that he only goes to the club to see me and right enough when we do spot each other we go outside and chat for ages! i see steven driving about the street but we never actually speak appart frm at the club because we always end up kissing and going home together when we are drinking! daniel text me saying that nothing would happen between me and steven at all...

SO TO CUT IT SHORT I GO WITH STEVEN ALMOST EVERY WEEK AND I HAVE RECENTLY FOUND OUT THAT DANIELS LIKES ME.. I TOLD DANIEL ABOUT ME AND STEVEN HE WAS UPSET AND NOW ISNT SPEAKING TO ME AND TOLD ME THAT NOTHING WOULD HAPPEN BETWEEN ME AND STEVEN

Does steven actually like me? and what should i do about the whole daniel situation?

Answer 1

Girl, make up your mind. I would personally go for Steven, who's older but really respectful, more mature, and *legal*.

You can't play around with both boys forever.

Besides, Steven was the first brother to talk to you, and "make things happen".

You clearly have more chemistry with Steven. Besides, you doing stuff with Daniel could make it really awkward between you and your own brother, since your brother and Daniel are friends.

Daniel is just feeling threatened and being a typical man and now worrying about his "territory". Just cos' another man beat him to the hot girl next door, he now feels like a dumbass.

Steven was the guy that was man enough to approach you.

If Daniel was too immature to talk to you first, it's his loss. How the h**l were you supposed to know that Daniel liked you?

So go out with Steven. Even though Daniel doesn't talk to you, be nice to him, and he'll get over it eventually, cos' he will realize that HE DIDN"T MAKE A MOVE BEFORE HIS BROTHER!