A SERIOUS problem,i hope you fo help?

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i live in hostel and i consides this person as very good frined

of mine and i asked today for room with him in next year but he said he is already reserved for room...

i feel very misrerable...i consider him as very good friend of mine but i dont think he thinks same for me..

he treats other friends more good(i feel)

how to overcome this....i feel very miserable today that he refused for room

why he does so

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Answer 1

Dear, everyone is not a friend.  Why do you want to hold on to someone that makes you miserable?

Look at it as, he's doing you a favor.  Perhaps your new room-mate will be a true friend.

Don't give up on friendship, but know when to let go.

God bless you.

Answer 2

We can't possibly say whether this person is your friend or not, but you are taking this MUCH too personally.

So you need to make other arrangements; you'll survive.

You can't expect a friend to not have any other friends; you'd be wise to cultivate other friendships and stop completely depending on this one friend.

Answer 3

It is not as serious as it may seem now. The pain will go away with time. Other friends you will get. Even here at Yahoo Answers is possible.  Sometimes it is not that one dose not want you as a friend; but maybe trying to protect both of you? Back in 1999 I saw a lady that never walked any where. So I asked why? She said she did not have balance. So I put my fingers around my belt loop to make my arm like a cane and off we went. EVERY car that drove be us you could see we were being judged in an evil way. And all I was doing was helping her walk. We both laughed at them.

But your friend may be concerned that some will judge the two of you wrong? And want to protect you?

Keep an open mind. And look for other friends too. Try and be positive so others will know you are friendly. But don't let ones with bad plans get to you!

Answer 4

this is one of those situations where u value ur friendship more than he does. you may think of him as a really good friend but he may think of u as some annoying girl who thinks ur best friends. sri for being straightfoward but it's true. he is one of those ppl who will be ur friend when it is convenient. he takes advantage of you. true friends really appreciate u and believe me he's not one of them. u will be better off rooming with someone else, preferably not a guy since they're so complicated. i really wish u the best of luck.

Answer 5

i think you like him, like him

Answer 6

Please try to not feel rejected.  I believe everyone likes others at different levels.  Heck, use this opportunity to explore new options.  Never know how valuable this can be for you.  You do not have to like this person less, but don't pout, or sulk, or try guilt tripping.  Thank this person for his candid honesty, and that you appreciate the opportunity to enlarge your data base.

Answer 7

Don't worry about it ! I'm sure your friend does likes you a lot.. just because he does not want to share a room with you does not mean that he does not like you ! Stop feeling miserable xx