A Womens Perspective?

Question

To the ladies.....For men when we see or meet a new women we generally make a decision within 2-3 seconds if we will sleep with you. Not all guys do this, but I am sure most do. I don't mean to be a total jerk but we do this with all women. We may never act on it and it may be just a passing thought from an initial meeting, but it happens.

It even goes as far as when we are driving down the road and see women in the car next to us. We just make that decision.

My question is this: Do women make this kind of decision when they first meet a man. Not for a date or anything, but like in a general situation. Do they "size" the man up quickly and make the observation that he is "worthy"?

Answer 1

Women usually want something more from a man than a quicky.  I don't remember too often of looking at a guy in a car and thinking anything more of him than..."Wonder why he chose that car?"

I think a woman needs to actually have a conversation with a man first.

Answer 2

short and sweet, yes i think pretty much.  ill think hey hes do-able hehe.

Answer 3

Looking is ok as long as you don't touch and I think everyone is entitled to look.

Answer 4

I don't size him up sexually, but I need to know if he's attractive, stable and mature. That split decision could be based on how he carries himself, his clothing, his appearance, his expression.

And I check to see if he finds me attractive.

Answer 5

I don't know about other women, but I do. It depends on the situation. Sometimes it may happen in a few seconds, and then sometimes it seems to happen after a long period of getting to know them. I'm married and I'm not looking for an affair. I'm happy where I am, but the thought just seems to pop in there...

Answer 6

I always thought that guys did that, but never thought to ask one... very interesting :)

As a woman, I do not "size" a man up as soon as I meet them.  Personality is a HUGE deal with me.  If a man does not have a good personality then I really do not care how good looking you are.  Therefore, I could not look at a guy and say "yes" I would be with that person.  

I have always thought that my boyfriend was cute, but when we first met I thought he was very cocky and I really didn't want anything to do with him.  Then, I got to know him better and really enjoyed his company.  I have now been with him for over a year and I still get nervous and giddy when I see him.

Looks are not everything.  They will fade with time.  I suggest that people should be with someone that they can talk to, laugh with, and want to grow old with.  One day my b***s will fall down :) and he will get old and wrinkly, but at least I know that our conversations will always be fantastic.  

Answer 7

I don't think so at all.  Are intentions are not like that, but maybe it is because we know that every man we meet, handsome, rock hard, nice body, smell, and laughable man is not going to make us o****m.  Unlike you men, ya'll get off with whoever, and whenever.  That is probably why we don't size you guys up.  Just my opinion.

Answer 8

If there is nothing about the man that piques my interest then I don't give him a second thought......but if there is I definitely size him up.

Answer 9

Interesting!  I can only speak for myself.  There are some guys that I make that decision about and others that I don't.  I would never act on it--I'm married! ;-)  However, as time passes, if there's a guy who I never even thought I might sleep with, as I get to know him, that answer might change.  

Thanks for giving the guy perspective! I wonder how easy it is for the man's mind to be changed with time.  Like if he doesn't think he'll sleep with a girl, is there something that might happen to change his mind later on?  

Answer 10

If I see a handsome man, I will ackowledge this.

But to take it as far as mentally undressing him - No.