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A badly titled question about making friends, friend fights, and what on earth can I do about it?

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Last weekend I went to a festival thingy with one of my friends who was I was pretty close to last year but I was away this summer and we're not in any classes togehter so we're not as close anymore. We got bored there so we met up with one of her friends who I didn't know. I'm really shy and awkward and horrible with conversations, basically pretty darn antisocial =D but so is he so we got along really well and it wasn't awkward at all.

He and my friend usually do stuff together weekends, and they invited me to come with them, but the plans fell through and they just went back to the festival thing again, but this time with a lot more people I didn't know so I didn't go.

At the thingy, her friends, who he didn't want to meet in the first place, got really mad at him, which made him mad at her, so she was really worried he didn't like her and wouldn't talk to her again. I haven't talked to her about it since to see if things are ok yet or not, so that's the first question. Should I/How should I ask about him/the fight/how everything is now, since we're not really great friends; I don't want to seem nosy.

I was really bored a day or so after all this happened so I sent him an email (facebook) just saying hi and that I was bored and my friend didn't want him to be mad and she was worried and some random things about people at his school that are my friends and some other nonsense, but he hasn't responded or anything. Don't worry, it wasn't a naggy "don't you dare be mad!" email or anything annoying like that.

One of the things the 3 of us wanted to do was see The Dark Knight.

I want to spend as much time as possible with my friend, and I really really like her friend and want to get to know him better, would it be a good idea to ask her to go to see the movie with me this weekend and see if she wants to invite her friend to come with us? Any other ideas, what should I do? What would you do?

Thanks!

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  1. i think it wud be a good idea to ask them about going  to the movies!! that way u can get to no him better!!!! and soon, u'll be able to han gout wiht him without having ur other friend come along, (then the 2 of u can become closer) And, about the whole facebook thing, no worries!!! first, maybe he hasnt been on facebook in a while, and yah..or maybe he is too shy to answer b/c he really likes u!! so by going to the movies maybe he'll become more comfortable around u, and maybe he'll clue in that u like him too! ( as u said u comfortable around him, so just act a lil flirty but not too much, u dont want ur friend to find out u like him) anyway, And, about the fight i wudnt ask him anything else about the fight just talk to him casualy, that way he wont htink hte only reason u're talking to him is b/c of ur friend!!!!

    good luck, i hope that made sense, & hope i helped!

    -softball♥sweetie

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