This is why I asked this:
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I'll try to keep this short.
I've been dating my fiancee for 2 years and now she wants to marry me. She is very sweet and I do love her, but there are a few things that eat away me and causes me pause.
For example:
In the two years we have been together, she has never offered to pay for anything. I end up pay for *everything* every time, even a trip to the store for a soda she always waits for me to pay. If she would have offered to pay, I would have said no, but it troubles that she has never even offered.
Then there is her friends. When her friends come over or if we go out with them and the issue money comes up, she's like, "Don't worry he'll pay for it." When I brought it up about her friends, she got upset and told me it would be rude if I didn't pay.
Then there is my car, which she drives more than I do and she pouts if I want to use it. Telling me I have a truck I can drive and that her car is ugly.
Part of me is starting to feel used, but I want other people's opinion. What do you think?
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