A crush on my best friend's cousin?

Question

OKay, so my best friend is really nice to me and yea, and i sorta have a crush on her cousin. And I tried forgetting about him, but since his cousin is my best friend, I get invited to all their family stuff and parties. And I don't want to use my BF to get to him either. What do you think I should do? Should I just forget about him? Or should I ask him out, because I think he kind of likes me too, but wouldn't it be weird? I AM HAVING A DILEMMA HERE!! HELP!!!

Answer 1

I don't understand the problem.  Is there some reason your friend would mind it if you let them know you had a crush on their cousin?

Answer 2

It should be no big deal to let the bf know how you feel about the cousin.  But you should tell the cousin how you feel about him first, and get his reaction before telling the friend. That way you've got him on your side already and it'll be easier for her to react to.