A dream about my cousin and I having s*x - help?

Question

Lemme start off by saying he's actually my first cousins son [first cousin, once removed]. And I was always really close to him because there is only a year's difference between us [he's older]. Anyway, we started dating not to long ago because we realized we are in love. And please no nasty comments, because I honestly need help.

My dream however, was kinda strange for me to have. I dreamed we were having s*x. But here is the thing, I'm Asexual. Which means I lack a s*x drive. I love him and don't want things to be to tense between us, so please help. And please don't call me names just because we are together.

The answer is probably right in front of me, but I don't dream much so this isn't my field of expertise. So, again, please help. And thank you~

BTW, if you need to know anything else about the dream, just ask. But, again, no nasty comments or any of that. That means in question form too.

Answer 1

This only means exactly what you said that you have love for him, respect and admiration as well.  This has nothing to do with any underlying sexual attraction at all.  Your admiration of him is shown in such a way in dreams.

Regards

Answer 2

One interpretation:

Your waking subconscious, which becomes your dreaming conscious, is writing a script about sexual love.

Your outer waking conscious may understand you are less sexualized, but your emotions may play a deciding role.

So, love and purity might tip the inclination toward dream s*x.

You do dream much as most anyone, but lack of remembering dreams is why some people say they don't dream much.

Would recommend "For Women Only," Shaunti Feldhahn (she has written "For Men Only," as well), and

"When God Writes Your Love Story," Eric and Leslie Ludy.

Consider giving a call to free counseling at 1-800-525-LOVE http://www.klove.com and 1-800-232-6459 http://www.focusonthefamily.com M-F business hours, ask for Counseling dept.  They will likely have good comments.

Answer 3

Since you said, you dated him and you loved him, then your dream has no interpretation at all. PERIOD.

When you dream of having s*x with someone that you don't have emotional relationship with or love and stuff like that, then the dream has valuable interpretation. But this one, forget it.

Answer 4

I think you need serious help.

you're related, you must both be very insecure.

That's sick, seek some professional advice.

Answer 5

1. Just because you dreamed about having s*x with him does not mean that you actually want to have s*x with him. s*x in dreams could simply symbolize the love you have for him and the fact that you feel like you can be intimate with him as in sharing who you are with him. Intimacy doesn't not always mean s*x, but may come across that way in a dream.

2. Asexuality does NOT mean that you lack a s*x drive. Asexuality, in the term of sexual orientation, is lacking sexual attraction to either gender. Many, many asexuals have an incredibly high s*x drive and do self-s*x, however, they do not have an attraction to either gender nor wish to be intimate with another. Some asexuals lack a s*x drive, but not all.  

Answer 6

s*x dreams usually have nothing to do with desire, it just means that you are really frustrated with your love in general, that's all,

you just need to relax or take a break sometime