A dream about my father who passed away recently.?

Question

My father passed away more than 3 weeks ago, It was very hard for me to see him in a coffin when I went to his funeral as the last time I saw him was a year ago before I left to go to another country. He was in my dream last night, the one first his burial..

I was in a place that looked like a church, it was as if I was in his funeral again and then my old school friend called me and asked me to come over as I have not seen him for a long time. I was about to approach him when all of a sudden, I saw my father sitting on a bench wearing a bright white polo and he was holding a glass of wine as If relaxing and just drinking while sitting there. He was staring back at me and I did the same, we were just staring at each other for about a minute. He did not blink at all and I could not read any emotion in face at all, he was just staring intently at me. After that in another scene with people who went to his funeral and 1 person told me'you know your dad would like to bring u n ur mom with

Answer 1

That other guy is trying to scare you with his interpretation. Don't pay attention to it.  My dad, sister, mother have all passed away and I dream of them all the time.  At first it scared the c**p out of me, but I've learned to understand dreams and I'm always happy to see them.

Dreaming of your dad is a way for you to process the grief of loosing him.  That comment that was made in your dream about your dad wanting you and your mom to go with him is a way of scaring yourself because you are afraid of death.

Seeing him look healthy and strong is symbolic of how you feel about yourself and how you wish he was right now.  You wish he was healthy, strong and a live.  However, you are the one who is healthy, strong and alive so don't let this fear bring you down.  Dreams are rarely literal and usually symbolic for something else.

I really doubt your dad would want your life to end while your young and healthy unless he was a mean and abusive sociopath.

Answer 2

i think it means your afraid of dying and you wish that your dad was healthy strong and still alive and your dad really cares about you and he didnt want you to go with him he probably meant that he wants to be with you but healthy and strong and im sorry for your loss

Answer 3

My father has passed away aswell, around 7 years ago. He could be trying to get back to you, and that person said that he would want to bring you with him is probably true, being at the burial place again could just mean that he was there while you were actually there before and you didn't realise so he went into your dream to pass over the message. I said to myself all the time in bed at night when my dad died that I did not want something like that to happen, It hasn't happened since I started doing that. I will try to get him to come into my dream and talk to me about this and see if he can help me to help you (I'm good at that stuff, but it's freaky)

Ill get back to you soon,

      Rob