A few weeks ago I asked a question about a shadow person I was seeing on my paper route, right?

Question

I have caught a glimpse her and there as has my step daughter, but this morning I didn't see the guy as a shadow, but as an actual person, except he disappeared at the end of the road! Literally! I saw him and than I'm like okay, its just a person, and I said "Good morning," and the guy waved and he said all cheerful like the same in return, but I had this feeling like I just wanted to start screaming and crying, and I turn around and he literally disappeared. Come to find out at the end of that road use to be a graveyard. So I practically run home myself, and tell my husband, and describe him to him and everything, and he told me that there has been reports of a guy matching that description "following," not stalking people in that area, and the reason nobody else wants that route is because of him. This guy was a friend on his track team in highschool. What do I do? I just found out I'm pregnant, and he was in my dream last night too? Carry a rosary or something?

Answer 1

If you are able to stay at a family's house, then go to a M.D and tell him that you need an order for low stress, light duty.

Clearly this man is targeting you, in BOTH realms....at least leave the physical environment. Hopefully that will be the end of that.

If not you may need to seek furthod efforts from the local archdiocese, or a paranormal expert.

Answer 2

I think you said it best when you said you are under a lot of stress. Forget about what people are telling you. Realize that the mind can create very realistic hallucinations under stress. Shadow people are a sign of stress or sleeping disorders.

Remembering vivid dreams is a sign that you might not be getting good sleep either.

I would discard the idea that this is a real creature, and start exploring the idea that you have a sleeping disorder, probably caused by stress.

If you search for evidence that this is a creature, or ghost, or demon trying to follow you around, you will find it. Of course, its all just rumors and urban legends floating around. Non of it is nessessarily true.

The fact that a graveyard used to be at the end of the road means nothing. Ghosts supposedly live in the houses they lived in when they were alive, unattached from thier bodies. Which means graveyards are the last places you should find ghosts (if they exist at all).

Now, go see a doctor about your sleeping problems and take care of the issue at its root.

Answer 3

You imagined seeing shadow people.  Then you get worked up and convince yourself there is something paranormal going on.  Then you see a real person and think he's a ghost.  You find information to support this and all of a sudden there is a panic in the streets.

Even if there used to be a cemetery at that location, it has nothing to do with anything going on here.  Your husband may be pulling your leg here.  It could be he doesn't want to do the route and is using this old friend routine as an excuse.  If this guy is a real person there is potential danger there, but not necessarily any more dangerous than any other stranger.

Congrats on the pregnancy.  Perhaps it is causing some hormonal swings that make you feel like something paranormal is going on.  From here it looks like you are whipping yourself into a frenzy.  You need to relax and take a little time out for yourself.  I think you've been under too much stress lately.

Answer 4

Do not quit your job.

Do not take "fear" on.

I really enjoyed your experience.....I know they are spooky like...but tell it next time that you would like to talk to it via telepathy...that way you won't be scared as much.  Say good morning, and if you are not of God...depart in the name of Jesus Christ.....if it remains......then ask it to tell you what it wants.  Ask it to tell you why your husband won't have anything to do with it.

I have a hard time believeing that anything I see (unless it is misty white) ....blackish(deamon) ........is okay.  Rather that it is a deamon wanting you to believe it is real...........just to scare you and make you both financially burdened by your quiting the route.  Rememeber the devil is as a roaring lion, and the devil and his deamons are out to Scare you, to cause you to fear.

God's plan is for each of us to live a victorious life through the power of the Holy Spirit, His Word, His name, and His blood.

Add all three onto yourself and into your prayer before and during adventuraing out.  Doing this will make you Fearless.

The baptism of the Holy Spirit changed a cowardly disciple into a fearless apostle.

When the Word manifest in flesh spoke, demons fled, disease dissolved, and death lost its grip.

The Pharisees, the multitude, and even Jesus' disciples were astonished at His words, for He spoke with authority.

~For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword" (Hebrews 4:12).

One verse, even one phrase or word from God's Word, can cut to the depth of the soul in a second, destroying the cancerous cells of sin.

The name of Jesus opens the gate into the glorious presence of the Almighty.

Answer 5

If he said good morning and waved at you, then he doesn't mean you any harm. He seems to be a lost soul. What did he say to you in your dream??  I do agree in self protection, the white and gold lights are perfect. Carrying a rosary can work but only if it's part of your religion. The crucifix, if not a part of your religion, will only anger dark spirits.

But otherwise, if you feel brave enough, tell him to go into the light. That the peace he seeks is in the light, and tell him not to be afraid of judgment. But he's there for a reason and he's coming to you because you're probably about the only person willing to talk to him, he wants something. Quite often I find they just want to tell their story, or do something, before they feel "free" enough to cross over. Then say a little prayer for him, and ask that angels come and guide him into the light. He just needs help crossing over.

But yeah... I haven't gotten used to feeling spirits around me yet either (I can't actually see them), and I've been feeling them for around 4 years now. But most of them don't wish to hurt anybody. Some don't even realize they're dead.

Peace, love and light

Answer 6

Here's the thing........if you take a camera with you, with the intent to photograph it the next time you see it.......you're guaranteed to never see it again.

Answer 7

Okay, here's the thing.  The ghost walked past you and said good morning.  Although you may have felt uneasy, there doesn't seem to be an indication of evil intent by the spirit.  This may sound foolish to you and you would have to be brave, but next time why not try holding a conversation with the spirit?  Take your chicken husband along since he thinks he may know the guy.  Perhaps he is in need of some type of help himself and is trying to reach out to you.  It is thought that spirits in need of assistance often seek out those that they trusted in life.  This may be why he has chosen you.  Perhaps he is hoping that your husband will ultimately come out and try to help.  He obviously has some freedom to move around outside of his "area" so I would have to believe that if there was evil intent, there would be little to stop him from following you instead of just passing by.  The perception that all ghosts are evil and out to get people is largely due to Hollywood, but it just isn't true.  I think you have the opportunity to really help this spirit.  You just have to decide if you are strong enough.

Answer 8

You have to remember that in most "typical" situations you have nothing to be afraid of when it comes to spirits. It is generally a good idea not to be a 'freak' about being worried as it tends to only draw 'negative' attention from those who would feed on fear.

It may sound confusing; but here is an example. If you get 'startled' and react with fright a spirit who would desire to inflict this response would continue to behave in this manner because you allow them to do it...where as if you told them to stop; they're supposed to comply with the request.

The problem is most people just react with fear and neglect telling the spirit to knock it off and thereby the behavior continues...to use a charm (e.g. rosary or something) would probably only perpetuate this feeling for you as you might get into the habit of being more fearful if you lose it or forget it.

That is not to say that some charms are not useful; just why you shouldn't rely on them.

Your desire to cry and scream when seeing this person could come from the fact that you knew/know subconsciously that they were not "alive" (i.e. physical) and your brain couldn't rationalize the 'seeing' for 'knowing' -- like a circular error: "I see him therefore he must be alive." yet "He's dead so he can't really be there..." but "I see him therefore he must be alive." yet "He's dead so he can't really be there..." but "I see him therefore he must be alive." yet "He's dead so he can't really be there..." but ....

So your brain pretty much short circuits providing you with that reaction.

You have a couple of reasonable options. He may just have a message to pass along and that is why he is hanging around...he knows you can see him so he is waiting for the 'right time' until you are ready to take the message so he can move on.

You can also 'put the word out' that you would prefer NOT to see them --- more than likely you would still hear them so if you're not ok with that either you need to think of a reasonable compromise as it is unlikely that will ever stop...perhaps whatever shape (like the 'shadow') you are comfortable with should be expressed.

Just project the fact that you won't be comfortable with anything else. I know this works because I have spirits everywhere I go and I can hear, feel, and sometimes smell them...but they never manifest to a 'completely visual' form for pretty much the same reason you have...it'd scare the c**p out of me.  Plus it is the only way I can keep the two worlds distinctly separated.

Pretty much you're going to be okay; just take it as a compliment that you can see him like you do...they wouldn't appear like that for just anybody; it takes too much energy.

However, on the off chance he tries to be intimidating tell him to move along as you're not interested and if he doesn't listen find somebody else to deal with him, like a Medium.

Answer 9

get a new husband !!!

i don't believe he lets you do that route knowing what he knows

all the best

Ian

Answer 10

Could just be a sad spirit, which you felt what it felt. I wouldn't think too much about it, especially since you are pregnant. After you have your child, then you can investigate it and look more into it.

Answer 11

i never get used to it and it has been happening almost all my life.  what you can do is make sure to self protect when you get up and before you go to bed at night,  really you can do this at anytime.  just make sure to visualize pure white light covering every part of you, then cover that with golden light and then red for protection.  talk to other people that go through this as well.  this will help you not feel so all alone.  you can contact me through my profile, i will be glad to make a new friend.

Answer 12

I don't think you have training or practice in dealing with this sort of thing.  I counsel great caution, as you don't want to invite something into your life that you don't understand, and that could have bad intentions for you.

Find someone who can teach you to protect yourself, and do NOT communicate with this spirit.

Answer 13

Maybe he wants something from you.  Have your husband go with you next time.  He is, after all, the one who knew him.

Answer 14

Has he done anything to suggest harm to you?

Have you simply asked him to go away and leave you alone?

Children are way more sensitive to the paranormal, you might want to keep that in mind.

Ask him to go to the light, ghosts are earthbound because they dont know that they are dead, he may not know where he is and is looking for his family, tell him his brother is waiting in the light for him ask him to see it, only if he doesnt mean you harm. If your scared only because he is a ghost and not because he is threatening. Usually when you dream of the dead they are trying to talk to you, if you dream of him again, tell him to go home or to leave you alone

Hislady said it perfectly, listen to what she has to say, to surround yourself in white light all you have to do is ask to be surrounded in it, Ive seen and felt similar things and I always protect myself by asking GOD to surround me in the white light of the Holy Spirit and let nothing negative come through, I also call on my beliefs to protect me as well (spirit guides, angels etc..)