A friend of mine lost her dad a few months back. how can i help.?

Question

at first she was pretty much unchanged.she was very hyper and still is . but every now and then she would just sit by herself in a corner either reading a book or just staring into space. sometimes she cant even hear us talking to her cause shes so absorbed in her thoughts.i am not very good at understanding people. what should i do. should i just let her be ?

Answer 1

sometimes yes other times no  

when shes staring into space it means that shes deep in thought in that moment ask her about thing talk to her

and if shes a bit sad looking cheer her up

Answer 2

i lost my dad a few years ago, and i was the same, just talk to her about the way you feel and listen to what she has to say, and try not make her dig a hole so deap she wont be able to get out.

Just dnt let her push everyone awway, because she needs people to surpport her, just be there for her and make her talk about her feelings without thinking no one will listen to her...

i hope that helps.

Nicole

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Answer 3

Just be there for her and listen. That's all you need to do.

Good luck!

Answer 4

All you can do is be there, listen, lend a shoulder and give lots of hugs.  The best thing you can do for her is tell her in the meantime is that no matter what, you're right there if she needs you.  

Answer 5

Be there and listen.

Thats the best thing.

Or perhaps treat her to a mani or pedi or take her for the day to the spa to relax.

She probably has alot stress built up and a spa would be perfect.

Just a girls night/day out will be great.