A girl i used to be friends with is making untrue accusations, what should i do ?

Question

A girl that i used to be friends with has started spreading roumours around about me.

She's saying that there is incest going on between me and my brother.

I admit, we're close and i hug him a lot, but that's not classed as incest, is it ?

Incest is when you engage in sexual acts with family members, right ?

My brother is 20 years old and has got a girlfriend and a baby on the way and i have got a boyfriend.

I told him what this girl is saying and he said that i should just ignore her and anyone that is worth being friends with, wont believe her, but i want to beat her up !

What do you think i should do ?

May i also add that she keeps trying to contact my brother. After he blocked her on MSN, she's made attemps to add him on nearly every site he's got.

Answer 1

a "friend"?  What a joke.  

if she used to be your friend, just ditch her.  But at least you know her true form.

Answer 2

She's just being ridiculous. If she's that much of a liar to make up sick things, NO ONE should trust her. If you start shrugging off the rumors and really confirming they're not true, people will start realizing how terrible that girl is.

It also sounds like she's jealous of the friendship you and your brother have. Does she have any siblings she maybe wants to be closer to? That could be the problem.

Answer 3

A friend she never was, true friends don't act like that, I believe she was only your friend when she was in need.  I say dump her totally and tell your friends that she is trouble.  Maybe tell your friends that she is sleeping with her uncle.  What's good for the goose is good for the gander.  When she can talk junk about you turn around is fair play.  Normally I wouldn't advise this but she is a royal pain in your side.

Answer 4

tell her to  leave you alone

if she has a problem with you

then its her problem not yours

because shes the one spreading gossip about you

Answer 5

point out to her that shes not hurting ur character shes only hurting her own. and hugging ur brother is not incest!!!!! i hug all my older bros what the heck. and as for her liking ur bro make it dead clear to her hes not interested in girls that thing he and his sister are incest

Answer 6

It sounds like your Brother has given you solid advise.  Try to ignore her and it's true any true friend of yours won't even entertain the idea of such a horrendous accusation.  As far as beating her up I can understand your anger and wanting to "punish" her back.  But that truly won't solve anything.  And with her wanting to contact your Brother so much and talk to him only shows how jealous she may be of your relationship and want that relationship for herself.  She's trying to destroy you at the same time of trying to gain his attention.  It's petty and stupid, and it will pass.  It sounds like to me that you and your Brother have a good and solid relationship.  One that will stand the test of times, and the stupid people like this.  Hang in there, take deep breaths... and try to ignore her.  It will all blow over, and you will be the better person for it.

Answer 7

thats very strange.. perhaps get a restraining order?

Answer 8

she jus a hater forget her dont even worry bout it