A girl ive know for 5 years!? PLZ hELP : (?

Question

ok im 14 and i dnt have too many friends lol becuase im shy. and im kinda scared to talk to girls but i have known a girl for 5 years and we have been freinds but thats it i race motocross and thats how we see eachother. i always liked her but i was scared to ask her out or anything but now she is sooooooooooooooo beautifull and cool but she has soooo many friends guys and girls. well i finally grew the nuts to ask her out like 6 weeks ago and she said a bunch of different excuses. "i still like my ex boyfreind" but then 3 weeks ago she said she was over him so i thought that was my q. and i asked her out again. "i cant becuase it will be aqward and weve been freinds forever". but she told me she was planning on giving me a chance but is she lying. i cant stand for her to be with any other guy anymore and i feel weird that im talking about this on the internet but im soooo depressed now. i need her to give me a chance. ive talked to my aunt about it who is like my best friend and she said the girl is too immature right now. plz help me out im soo depressed! : (

Answer 1

she wants to be friends with you .

nothing more.

maybe someday it will grow to be more just be patient

Answer 2

she doesnt know what she wants. just let her make the move or give it more time?

Answer 3

im not positive that this will work but you can try to spend less time with her and ignore her...this will show her that she needs you and maybe she will understand that you are an important part of her life and she will want to go out with you

Answer 4

sorry to tell you this but ima be real with you,

i know you may want to be with this girl so bad and all but unfortunately she may be a little weirded out by the fact you have known each other and she may have only seen you as a fiend,

the best thing to do at this point is to leave it alone for right now and act like you aren't into her like that any more and she will start to get light bulbs in her head and wonder why you aren't asking her out anymore or why you don't look at her no more and she will start to get drawn to your rejection as she is thinking it is when really you are trying to reverse it,

but in the mean time leave it as friends and maybe even get yourself a another girl friend and stay friends with her, and if she gets a guy friend that cool because when they fight she will be looking for you to talk to and you will get to no her dislikes and likes about a man and you know what kiddo one day you will be that man that she was looking for,

it may work out that Way if you play your cards right  

Answer 5

I seriously doubt that she is interested, she has refused you twice, and with a bunch of cliched excuses.

Let her date a few other guys, let her find out that they are losers, and then, she may be ready to "have a go" with you.  of course that means that you should not sit around waiting, but date other girls, even if you do not get into a serious relationship, even if you are not particularly interested in THEM, it will be good practice for you, AND will stop you from looking like a loser.

I cannot say that this will definitely work, but, it is better than sitting around, and "a-wishing and a-hoping" that she will come to you.  At the same time, since you really have been "just friends" for such a long time, changing this could be a little difficult.

Answer 6

she is relationship-ally insecure with you bcuz shes known you forever.

she is using excuses not bcuz she just wants to give excuses, its because she doesnt want to just shoot you down because you 2 are very close.  

oooooooorrrrrrrr,she could just be childish LOLz