A girl keeps appearing to me in my dreams. HELP! This is scary!?

Question

Okay I'll keep this short. There's a girl that I knew a while ago and I loved her a lot. I thought I'd be with her forever. I ended up hurting her by something I said, and she didn't forgive me for it. She didn't even try to work it out with me. It hurt me a lot.

So I try moving on; I met a nice girl, just friends for now, but I really like her and it's helped me deal with the first girl I was hurt by. We've even talked some about the other girl, and she's helped me get over it all. Suddenly, without thinking about it, I start getting multiple dreams about this girl I initially loved. I had stopped thinking about her, and she was never in my thoughts. But in the dreams, she returned and the love I felt for her came back when I woke up. Can anyone help? I appreciate these dreams, and I feel good about them, but they seem like a plague. At one point, she appeared in my dreams for 3 nights in a row.

Answer 1

Well, I think it is fate trying to give you a sign that you are distend to be with her. Just try to call her.

Answer 2

O_o   thats so cool woah !

Answer 3

It means there are unresolved issues, you aren't actually over her. You will need to finish healing before you can completely move on.  

Answer 4

maybe shes a succubus

Answer 5

Actually your dreams have to do with your current relationship. Dreaming of you first girlfriend is telling you that you are experiencing similar emotions with the new girl that you experienced in your old relationship. Since the relationship with the first girl was good until the misunderstanding and because the dreams are positive ones, your dreams represent the positive emotions that you are feeling with the present girl.

*By the way, there is no such thing as getting over someone. You just find a way to put the feelings somewhere else besides in your current feelings. Those old feelings for someone will come out at the craziest times, but eventually there will feel good and not so bad. Good luck!

Answer 6

It sounds like this girl still loves you and was really hurt by you and the reason she keep showing up is because she has something to tell you or she wants an explanation

Answer 7

Your mind and heart is telling you that you still love her.  Try to get to talk to her, she might listen this time, who knows, maybe thats another thing your heart is telling you. =]

Answer 8

I think you still like her and the reason you are dreaming of her because you really didn't end up they way you wanted with her. I bet she still has feelings for you and is having dreams about you too. Take a chance and go after her. You never know she might still love you tremendously. Even if she has a bf right now it doesn't mean she doesn't like you, it could be a guy that is trying to replace you but is not working out. Ask her to go out for a bite or a walk to the park. Good Luck!