A guy who's nice to you when you look good?? ?

Question

its hurting my feelings alot. He never tells me anything about himself and we've been talking for a yr. Im good looking but i started to not care about how i look because it seemed that guys are after how i look. I started to like this guy cause i thought he's different, but then i realized that whenever i looked gud he was extremely nice, but then when im not he acts as if he doesn't care. He also never tells me much about him, and never asks about me, he only asks when i look good?? Ive rejected him countless times, before that he used to be a bit open with me, and he's extremely shy.

Answer 1

Guys who don't talk at all to pretty girls think they're " the nice guy". If they just listen and never say anything.  Especially if they're nicer when you spend more time on your appearance.

Don't reject him- ignore him. Try to look past him when you see him and act like he isn't there. Do this while looking good.

Also- dressing up obviously seems to make you happy- nobody can wear anything to hide who they are.

So keep looking nice if it makes you happy and you don't know why guys like you until you ask them.

Forget this  dweeb though.  

Answer 2

He needs to lay of the refer or you need to move on.

Answer 3

i knew someone like this ...he was k**b end  

Answer 4

maybe he doesn't treat you as well because he thinks that you aren't putting an effort into the relationship, so why should he?

When you dress up, he probably thinks you are trying to impress him/make him feel good/putting an effort into the relationship so of course he will put more effort in by being extremely nice.

If you don't want a man who thinks that way, then find someone else who loves you as a slob and when you dress up its even betterXD

:D

Answer 5

go for it girl:)

Answer 6

You can do so much better ; you deserve better :D

Answer 7

A love for a person is not dictated for when a person loves another at their best, but when a person loves another at their worst.

There is no point in dealing with this guy, call him a shallow a*****e and ditch him, he's not worth your time, he doesn't really like you, he just wants to **** you.

Answer 8

I hat to say this but he sounds shallow and only wants to be your friend with benefits.

Answer 9

if he really is only being nice to you when you look good, he's a jerk.

But this could be something else entirely. You say that you think your attractive and I bet you are...but are you really that confident? could it be that on those days you may be feeling bad or gross and maybe looking a little too closly for signs that he might notice these temporary flaws?

Its a given that if you're showing a bit more cleavege than usual, a guy will pay more attention. it's how most of them are built.

So i wouldn't worry too much about it.

Answer 10

First of all, ask yourself what you exactly want from that guy. If you are a shallow person you knowingly or unknowingly attract another shallow person. It cannot happen otherwise. So set your priorities first and you will get the answer yourself.

Answer 11

get away from the guy...and kudos to u for understandin that looks(even though are sumthin) arent everything

Answer 12

my boyfriend is sitting next to me... and in his oppinion, the guys a pr*ck...