A house full of visitors ?

Question

For the last tonight's I had similar dreams OK Here the one I had last night ;; I am living in a big house ; and very well furnish [ which is not mine in reality ] There lots of visitors for lunch and I am late and there is not enough food to feed all those people ; plus the house is not clean the way I want ; so I start to clean ; but I know I have to get some groceries from the store and I realized that I am still in my pyjama ; so I have to take a shower [ I am taking my shower every day before I get dress ] and one of my husband niece want to talk to me and its like I do not know where to start and I am tired and I woke up > Why those dreams Thanks for all the answer

Answer 1

You feel unorganized and overwhelmed.  Question is, is this about your duties  which you can fix  or are they about someone else and you have no control.

  If some of both,  organize the things you can and let go of the things you are not in charge of.   Easier said than done, but what choice do you have?

P.S. If you can't delegate to get some help, then say no more.

If teenagers are causing the confusion,  get some nanny books. Never too late to do it right is my motto.

Answer 2

I think your dreams means you are concerned that you are not fully prepared to meet the needs of poeple. First of all in the dream you have a lot of visitors over your house to eat some lunch but to your dismay there is not food enough for anyone. Perhaps you were not prepared for them as you should have been which obviously leaves you in a relatively embarassing situation. Then the dream continues, although you have a wonderful home you realize that it is not clean therefore not presentable to the guests you have over which once again indicates that you feel ill prepared to meet those people's needs and expectations. You also seem to be concerned that perhaps you feel that you are not meting people's expectation of you. Then you realize even gretaer problems ahead which is that you need to buy food but you are in your pyjama which clearly shows once again that you feel that you are not prepared as you should be. Because you are dressed in your pyjama you are unable to go immediately to buy food and have to waste extra time precious time to get what you already should have. Also because you seem to be so busy and you feel your job is demanding you don't feel you have the time to have a chat with your neice. You are tired and exhausted. Taking care of people is a full time job to you. It leaves you little time to socialize and make small talk. Also notice that at the beginning of the dream you were not relaxed as you should have been with people coming over to lunch. Instead you are in a panicked state, always busy, always finding something out of place that you should have done but you never did.

It is also important to add that the house itself could represent your life. Everything on the outside or surface may seem like it is going well and everything but deep down you are constantly concerned that you are unprepared to deal with certain things, certain people that present itself in your life and you feel constantly busy with no time to relax and enjoy yourself because you constantly worry about keeping up appearances, making sure everything is clean and everybody is satisfied or well fed.