A kid i was mean to died...?

Question

there was a new kid at our school who we were mean too and i mean everybody he didnt have one friend. me and my 2 friends were actually the closest friends we had even though we were mean to him. we talked to him sometimes but other than that we were complete jack***** come a week after school we find out he had a brain seizure and later his parents decided to take him off of life support and he died. its been months but i cant get over the guilt i have and i think about it everyday. we all decided that no matter what we wouldn't be mean to any other kids again. i cant get over my guilt could someone help me somewhat come to terms with getting over some guilt?

Answer 1

I'm sure a bunch of people have already told you that his death wasn't your fault and it wasn't. But no matter what anyone says you're still going to feel guilty because you were a jerk to him. Maybe you could go talk to his family, that could help ease the guilt.

Answer 2

Don't feel bad. He died naturaly and you don't have to take it out all on yourself. And you werent the only one who picked on him.

So just let go of it..

There is obviously nothing you could do now.

Answer 3

that wat you get for pickin on him jerk

Answer 4

never make the same mistake, and be nice with anyone around you.

even though you were not nice to him, I guess he will be happy that you learned your lesson and will never do something like that again.

Answer 5

You have already learned the most important lesson of all. We cannot change the past or what we have done in the past either, but we can make darn sure we don't make the same mistakes over and over. I know you feel bad, and that is a sure sign that you are really a nice person. We all makes mistakes in life ad these kind of mistakes are so easy to get sucked into without hardly even realizing it til  it;s too late. I know what I have said is not really anything to make you feel a lot better but think of it this way. The longer you feel bad about this mistake the less chance you will repeat it. Try to give yourself some slack in the meantime. This is really unfortunate the way this happened with him dying and all but you know in your own heart if you ae a good person and the things that you can change to make yourself an even better person in the future. take care

Answer 6

he died of natural causes. its not like you guys were mean to him and he committed suicide. and you were apparently nicer to him than anyone else was if you were the closest he had to a friend.

Answer 7

well at least he isn't getting picked on anymore

Answer 8

you shouldn't feel guilty. you didn't cause the seizure. It is like a time bomb that can go off anytime anywhere. What you can  do is to try harder to be nice to others maybe it will work  and maybe it won't just keep trying

Answer 9

everyone learns lessons somehow, the lesson you learned was not to pick on others, just think, its not your fault he died, may seem like it,but its not.

i know this sounds stupid but maybe you could go to his grave and apologize,lol.sounds silly..but it might actually work! (: ha.

Answer 10

Be proud that you were his closest friend. If you were the meanest one towards him, that would be a different story. If you want to, pray and apologize.