A little confused and annoyed...?

Question

So I have some friends who seem to only know that I exist whenever they need a ride somewhere or a hook up to some party or something. I get the point that they are users, but they have stepped up to the plate once or twice... what do you think, should I severe all ties with them or should I at least try keep the link alive, but be smarter with my actions.

Answer 1

Do their good points out way their bad? If so, then be smarter with your actions. Don't be as available when they suddenly need a ride or hook up. If they are friends worth keeping they will understand but if they get all pissy at you for not being able to give them what they want when they want it then definitely severe ties.  

Answer 2

2nd one. It's better to have some connection with ppl, just be careful with actions.  

Answer 3

well the thing is do these people notice you after you give the rides or do they just dump you. you see people will always use you its you who has to either put up with it or stop it, ask your self if you like the way you are being treated and then start from their and see where it leads you. hope this helps i know how you feel but i fell better

Answer 4

You should always keep connections. Just be smarter with your actions and then you'll find out who your real friends are.

Answer 5

Don't burn any bridges but perhaps become a little less convenient for them. Go out and network with others you have similar interests with and try and get some better quality friends.

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Answer 6

tell them they need to start acting like friends because if all they want is a ride then you are not there for them anymore. remember if you can't be honest with them, they aren't your friends. idk if i were you id stay away from them and when they ask for a ride tell them to p**s off.

Answer 7

Were they friends before the car?  Do they encourage you to be a better you,... or drag you down?  Right now your focus should be on developing the gifts that God has placed in you and anything that takes away from this would be a distraction.  Below are some fantastic article that might be able to help you answer that a little better....Hope it helps!

Answer 8

I had friends like that and it is better to just let it fall away if that's how they want it to go. Don't call them and see when they call and what for. If the call for ride or the c**p that they usually call for say no you can't but if they ask to hang out and you know its legit then hang out but be careful cuz they will catch on that you aren't being their taxi and they will come up with way for you guys to "hang out" but all you will really be doing is being a taxi.