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A little help for a broken heart?

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When I ALMOST got over this guy I had a enormous crush on, my friend started going out with him. I forgave her and got over that but whenever I see them together or hear about them together which is a lot of the time, I feel EXTREMELY blue.

I can honestly say I'm pretty attractive but kinda shy and very picky about the guys I like or go out with so its hard to just go out and find a perfect new guy for me.

What are some remedies for healing this heartache?

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aww, that's not very nice of your friend!

but you are very kind giving them your permission...even if it does upset you.

id say find a new crush is the best option. it will be hard to do at first, but soon you'll forget about him, promise :)
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Chocolate and a new guy!
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Find another guy! Trust me you'll find one!
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FLIRT, FLIRT, FLIRT!!

it's funny how we find what

we are looking for wen we stop searching

Just give it time.. you'll find him.

good luck gurly :)

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Oh i'm just like you. I'm kinda shy and really picky about my guys, but my friend has never been so scan to get with a guy I liked! Awh hun i'm sorri, I do know what its liike to be heartbroken though. You see the guy you like happy with another girl, but deep down in your heart, you know you could make him happier.

The bad thing is that you can't just get rid of a heartbreak. The only cure for this is time. Maybe just spend a little less time with your friend, don't give up the friendship, but just seperate yourself a little bit.

Meet new people

&& you'll find a great new guy**

Trust me, just give it a while.

But for now, maybe get your single girls & girls night out!

Ice cream && movies doesn't cure, but it does help

Hope you feel better.

:)
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When a women steals you're men there is no better revenge than to let her keep him, go on with you're life you deserve better than that
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Time heals all wounds, you will find someone better, just get out there and find him.
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remenber that it ended for a reason: becuz there is someone out there better for you.

its normal to feel bad about it but dont live your days always thinking about it.

too try to forget go out with your girl friends...go shopping (spoil yourself!) go to a club, or lounge or fancy resturant or even...get a hobby like painting or something.

Im sure you'll be fine

and remenber there will ALWAYS be another guy:) just give it time
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Guys come and go.

Sometimes I feel that way about my ex's and I'm positive that i'm over them. It's just a sense of jealousy. It happens. But you're gonna find an amazing guy. So don't worry about it.

:)
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For starters ditch your "friend". Learn a lesson from your experience and change the way you do things in order to avoid this happening again. My heart is so special to me that I very rarely commit it to anyone. The person I commit to must be able to commit to me to. I don't think I can handle a broken heart because when I do commit my heart it is totally - I worship my beloved. Your ex is a jerk because he did not value the most precious gift that anyone can get.

A sufi poet says: "In the market place of hearts, one does not look at beauty, nor does one look at status or wealth, If the heart is good then the price is immaterial." Yes a heart is priceless and only a fool would not realize this.

A little poem to make you laugh: "I gave you my heart thinking that you were worthy of it. You gave it a kick thinking it was a football."

While you are in this state you would be able to enjoy this lovely, ancient poem by Ru mi. I am dead sure you would appreciate it, learn a lot about love and feel much better. It is applicable to you case. Goggle "masnavi" or "Ru mi". It is the prologue and first story.

Do not go into another relationship right away.

I wish you well and pray for your recovery.
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I find that Alcohol is a great solution for these types of problems.
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Keep positive
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Chocolate. It actually contains the same chemicals that the brain produces when we're in love, and even if it didn't it would still make you feel better.

Exercise also helps when you're feeling down, and helps counter the bad effects of the chocolate, so go play some sport, go down the gym, go running.
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I can relate to you =) I am the shy and picky type too when it comes to guys.

First off, i would not forgive my friend for what she did (if she knew i liked him).

Secondly, you ALMOST got over him so it shouldn't be hard getting over him again!

Thirdly, since your picky, you can use this as a favor and figure out something like a bad habit the guy has, and most likely you'll forget him much easier.
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ok if you are picky then what i would do is i would wait until they break up and then see if he likes you.BUT DONT TRY TO BREAK THEM UP BECAUSE THINK ABOUT THEIR HAPPINESS YOU WILL GET YOURS WHEN THEY DO!
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first of all STOP being negative.just get dates and i'm sure u will find the perfect guy.don't sit around waiting for the pain to go away.go out with ur friends and flirt with guys and just have fun while u still can.
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the only way is to find some one better that will take the other lad out ya mind you dont have to go out with them or owt just to take ya mind of him
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