A little help from the lads please...?

Question

i am 14 and my boyfreind has suggested i do the oral on him,,, i really want to because i love him loads and dont want to lose him so can anyone describe how i can do it properly without making my self look totally c**p which i am scared i will :|

Answer 1

if you ever want to do it, do it on your own accord, not being pressured .

when that day comes , you will know what to do

Answer 2

That will not keep him at all. Don't let your self be used like a piece of trash. You are worth more than that. You do not deserve to be treated like a common street protitute. s*x doesn't keep anyone in a relationship. It just makes the guy have something to tell all his friends about and then dump you when he get board again.

A chemical is released in a man's brain when he has s*x similar to one that makes him feel "out of love". In a woman it is released to make her feel more in love. You have a greater risk of pushing him away and making him lose respect for you. If you honor and respect yourself he will look at you higher in the long run. Even if you lose him in the short run you can win him in the long run.

Its like going out to eat when your not hungry. If you start with dessert you will not feel like the rest of the meal.

Hope this helps.  

Answer 3

You listen to this ,,,, If you have to do that sort of thing or give your body to a guy just to hold on to him then he's not worth the time of day ,,,, He's a loser and a user from the work "GO" ,,,, That is so sick ,,,,  Don't worry about how to perform this ,,,, Concern yourself with finding some one that doesn't want you to lower or degrade yourself just to please him ,,,, If this guy loved or respected you at all he wouldn't dream of asking you to do this ,,,, If you don't do this he's going to find someone else who will and that should prove to you what he really feels about you ,,,,He doesn't want some one he can love and respect he just wants some s**t to do the nasty on him ,,,, Don't start making mistakes with s*x or any form of it so early in your life ,,,,They have diseases out there that they don't even have names for yet let alone a cure for them ,,,,  The big question here is not how to do it but why should you have to do it at all ?,,,,  There are all kinds of ways to prove how you feel about him ,,,, He shouldn't expect that of you  ,,,,  //