My boyfriend and I recently decided for us to split up and it would be an easy choice to just leave, but we have 5 month old daughter which makes it A LOT harder, as it should.
I asked him to make the final choice about 4 days ago and he said that he would be okay, and thought it would be the best idea for me to leave with my daughter. The reason we're splitting is the usual case, we've fought, argued, and said horrible things to one another, to the point of me not thinking it'll ever work. We've tried for months to make it work, but now we've come the final realization that, in this stage of our lives, it won't.
So, we decided my daughter and I would move (8 hours away, where my mother lives) which would be helpful to me, since she loves my daughter so much and said she would watch her no charge as long as I started school, and I've actually gotten excited thinking about my future turning around. Well, now my boyfriend is saying he's not sure he wants me to go, It's already hard enough thinking I'll have to leave him and take his baby away from him. Even if I were to stay I doubt things would get better. I believe it would just be a quick fix, and things would turn the way they once were before. Imagining, me leaving her dad and her family over here almost pains me enough to stay in a bad situation...I'm so torn, she has tons of cousins and family over here that love her, but I don't want to stay in a bad relationship....can someone help me, please? I know this should probably be posted somewhere else, but I post here a lot so I figured I'd post it here as well.
Tags: