A lot of people think i'm all cold and quiet but i'm actually fun?

Question

-by this i miss a lot of great opportunities

-everyone else just ignores me

sometimes they'll feel bad for me and say hi here and there, say a few things and that's it, and i hate it when they do that

-it's just that i always have something on my mind and everyone judges me too quivkly

-i don't care about what other people think about me but how do i stop seeming cold and quiet when i'm really not?

people take me to seriously

Answer 1

been there and done that for years.

Try an assertiveness course.

Also keep in mind people will ignore you unless you take the initiative. It's not easy, in fact it's realy tough, but it works. If you pay attention to other people they will pay attention to you.

Just try it with one person to start with.

Answer 2

try writing this down on your diary it might be a good idea even if your too young or too old.then u can express yourself by writing it thenn it will just slowly fade away.....but u have to keep telling poeple who u really are and what u have inside your mind

Answer 3

I get that all the time. People just don't understand what I'm thinking, therefore that leads them to judging a book by it's cover. It wouldn't hurt if you start communicating more, participate in more activities of your choice (if you have not done so yet) or express your feelings more often. You're not the only person; others have to deal with that too. I guess people are just too immature, so they jump to conclusions quickly. You don't need to be surrounded by fake people like those, get yourself involved with a group of really great friends that understands you and know you better than anyone, and if others witness that, their opinions might just change. =]

Answer 4

Show them a fun side of you..

They may see you diffrently as you see yourself. So show everyone a silly side of you, and kinda make yourself take the spot light.. Just like be you but more outgoing. That should work

Answer 5

SMILE A LOT  !! if you smile you look aproachable .

Find things in common that you can talk to people about-if you can't do that talk about the weather!!!!!!

Make sure that you can  laugh at yourself if you mess up or do something silly -or people will worry about offending you all the time,think you are uptight and not want to talk to you....

Answer 6

I like the second person's answer. Practice makes perfect.