A male friend that I'm interested in?

Question

He's interested in me as well but we're not in a relationship yet. But we do spend a lot of time together - going shopping, having lunch, visiting each other at work - in other words, we see each other as much as we can :)

I noticed on his facebook profile that when another girl writes on his wall, he always deletes it a few days later. But when I write something he won't delete it. Why does he delete messages from the other girls?

I know they're just his friends, and I don't mind anyone writing to him but why does he do that?

He also drives me home very often

Answer 1

sounds like hes a good guy and really likes u in more than a friend kinda way...don't trap him in the friend zone...make a move, it sounds like he is too nervous to make the first move

Answer 2

Obviously, like you have previously stated, he is interested in you.

And, seemingly, just you, since he deleted the comments from other girls.

Why not ask him out on a real date? It seems like the feelings are mutual.

Answer 3

probably becuase he doesnt want you to think hes takenn??? idk just freakin go out w/him

Answer 4

He values your thoughts/expressions before the others.  Good 4u.  U knew that all along so why u need affirmation for?  D:)

Answer 5

From the information given, he seems interested in you.  You should make your interest known and let the chips fall where they may.  He might think that you are not interested and move on.

Answer 6

maybe he likes u and dosnt want u to be jelous (sp?)

Answer 7

Well it sounds to me that he probably doesn't want you to feel uncomfortable or anything of that nature.Obviously he digs you so go for it before someone else does.

Answer 8

I don't know why.. maybe the other messages are trivial and maybe he sees you as his special friend and for that reason wants to keep your messages as he likes to spend time with you..more than he does with the others..so it's obvious that he likes you a lot.. if he is really interested in more than a friendship with you, he will let you know sometime soon, if he says nothing then he just likes you a lot but doesn't want a GF BF relationship..  He may really care about you and  value you as a wonderful friend and for that reason spend a lot of time together with you or he wants to be sure he feels more for you than just friendship.. therefore he is holding back for now and not mentioning more than ''being friends'' because if he tells you that he feels deeper for you I believe he is the guy who means it and at present he is not yet sure if it's just a deep friendship or if this could be the beginning of love...x*x

Answer 9

you know why he deletes them