A man has asked have s.ex with me for $10,000 or pay my note note off because?

Question

A cute man has a proposal for me. He will pay me $10,000 or pay my car note off( I just bought a car 6 months ago and I have $17,000 left on it to pay) if I spend 1 weekend with him at his house.

HIS REASON:

He has never been with a black woman before. He has been with white women his own race.

PHYSICAL RISK:

Really none because I have known him for 5 years. He is a good person. He actually is a doctor in my neighborhood but he is not my doctor. No he is not a bad boy or a player whatsoever. Of course I will use condoms if I do go through with it.

PROS:

I know him.

-He is really cute, tall and in good physical shape

-He is only 33 years till young and I'm 29 years.

-We are both not married and not in relationships.

-I like his house, he has a really well decorated home, I have been there for parties that he throw from time to time.

MY OPINION:

-I'm thinking of taking him up on it because I find him attractive though i have never showed it.

-I can get my car paid off.

-No one I know has to know about it.

-I have never been with a white guy before so this will be an experience for me too without any strings attached.

-NO, i do not think I will feel used if I enjoy the experience

YAHOO ANSWERS:

If you were me single and he single what would you do?

Answer 1

I notice you list no cons - which means to me you are more trying to convince yourself to do it.

If you can live with it, then it is your life to live.  Personally I don't think I could live with myself being involved with an exchange of money and s*x.

Answer 2

I would do it.  Don't tell my mama though.

Answer 3

This is a stuff question, well if you don't mind him giving you money for your company then go for it. Look at it as a gift, but make sure you get your car paid off before you spend the weekend with him, because you never know he might back out, and just use you.  

Answer 4

$10,000 i would sleep with him too!

Answer 5

You are putting yourself in a tough situation. If this white man has it going on the way you say he does he shouldn't have a problem getting an attractive black/white female to sleep with him. Anything that is that easy to get or seems to be to good to be true is!  You're selling yourself short. I would never put a price on myself and definitely not 10 grand. I am so much worth more. Be careful. Something is clearly suspect about this man offering you money to sleep with him. So all you're worth is 10 grand? What if the condom bust?

Answer 6

If you want to prostitute yourself out go for it. But then when every other man in your neighbourhood wants to buy you, you have no one but yourself to blame. Honestly, have a little more self respect. If this "lovely guy" you described had any respect for you he'd even propose this? I don't think so.

Answer 7

with my luck...that's too good to be true.  i wouldn't do it.

Answer 8

if he is paying that much just to be with black girl, you may get him a w***e and you pay her only $1000 and you take the rest.

Answer 9

Go for it and no you are not a prostitute. As long as you both agree to it and you trust that he will keep his end of the promise. You have nothing to lose. You have more to gain in this than him. You both get to enjoy the s*x. while you gian $10,000: he loses $10,000. This deal is to your advantage.

It seems you trust him, and it's good that you have known him long enough. I wish I can find a  beautiful lblack woman to date me.

My friends and I are attracted to black women. In atlanta, there are a lot of beautiful black women but we have fear to even take the first step. I'm educated but scared of rejection from a black woman.

Answer 10

I didn't know the going rate for Jungle Fever was $10,000.....I thought it was maybe three or four crack rocks, but that was about it....

Answer 11

If you think your conscience can handle it Monday morning...

Answer 12

I would make him give me some of the money upfront. I would give him the best f%uk of his life. You only have one life to live. Have fun.....

Answer 13

He is treating you like a w***e and a lesser human being. If he wants to sleep with a black woman (or any woman) why doesn't he date you and woo you? Please understand me, it isn't the s*x that bugs me - it's the implicit racism. He's buying you - like a slave. Do you see what I mean? He wants to try it out but he doesn't want any committments and he doesn't want to have to think of you as a 'real' woman with feelings. Please don't do this: you will end up feeling bad about yourself.

Answer 14

so you're a first class call-girl.  A s**t....a w***e.  If you're going to degrade yourself and your body, you might as well get paid for it.  I hope in the end it's worth it.

Answer 15

if you marry him now, he thinks that you are too easy and do anything for money.

Answer 16

Our opinion doesn't matter.  Your conscience does.  You do what you think is best.  People have done worse.

Answer 17

Prostitution is against the law, but it is also the oldest and one of the highest paying professions.

Try and treat him right, he may have men's poker night at his house and need a hostess.  You could really rake it in, in the coat closet.

Another thing against the law is holding his solicitation of prostitution against the medical license, no through extortion you can collect weekly.  A little s*x at pay up time will keep you in dough and he may not feel bad enough about it to press charges.

I think this is way over priced but a fee for some clean cootchie should be.

Let us know when you drop your prices.  

Answer 18

You accept the offer and he then want to pay only $10.   At that point it has been established what you are, you are just haggling price.  Hope you get it.

Answer 19

How about listing the cons;

1. I would be nothing more than a w***e, by excepting his

money/offer.

You left that one off...

Answer 20

Well not only will you have a car all paid for, you will be forever a w***e. Whats the value on your reputation and your morals?  

Answer 21

Sounds like simple s*x to me.  Very discreet.  Why the money though?  To save face, tell him you'll go out with him if he likes you.  IF you or he is afraid of attachments, surely your both mature enough adults to have that discussion.

Here's another example of what's so F'd up with our healthcare system.  An irrespectable doctor with too much money who's willing to use it to buy s*x instead of some philanthropical venture.    

Answer 22

Are you a prostitute? If you guys wanna get together then why not just start dating and what not. Why involve money -only complicates things and so does s*x.

Answer 23

10K? You must have a lot junk in dat trunk.