A pisces male that I can't understand?

Question

Hello I am a Leo (sun sign) 18 years old I have a scorpio rising & Taurus Moon. My Pisces Bf 21 years old has a virgo rising & Aries moon.

Why do pisces guys get so clingy at the star 12 months of a relationship than after nearly two years of the relationship he moves in with a 42 year old male who drinks tons and influence my bf to drink, suddenly becomes unclingy.

Now he tells me to back offf and tells me he wants more time to him self I don't understand it since he got his friend to live with.

He takes me for granted to he will only commit and want you when he needs you but if you want him its not ok for him.

Because I sent a message today saying "I love you" than he replies "back off honey I need time to myself love you bye"

But yesterday we were on a date and he planed it because he wanted to be with me we had a great time and everything and now he pushes me away.

When we used to have time together on one day and next day we both call each other up and he would be sweet.

Answer 1

hun, from what ive learned the sun sign can mean nothing!i belive its the virgo and aries in him which makes him into a prick! trust me dump him, aries and virgo would be both terrible bf's gd luck xx

Answer 2

You are a commanding and a demanding presence, hot as anything, a real catch in the looks and s*x department.  He is adorable, but a quiet, gentle, sweet boy, passive and adoring.  Except when he is not.  You cannot stand when he is not there for you.

Inconsistent and fragile Pisces is known to be incompatible with formidable Leo.  You are willing to give and give, but only when your partner is there to receive.  Sometimes he retreats because you are too muich for him to handle.

You need to meet your match with a stronger sign: sagittarius, aries, gemini, libra.

Answer 3

Typical Piscean...Misunderstood & Hard-Headed. I Suggest You Kick Him To The Curve, Pisceans Are The Most Annoying People In The Earth..Plus The Moon Aries Makes Him Twice As Selfish. =(

Answer 4

Ummm..this is a little bit difficult. I'm a pisces and I can only speak for myself...but I tend to be clingy too because I love someone. When we love we want to be with the other person completely. We lack independence to an extent...because we want to be as one with our partners. And we tend to get hurt when our partner doesn't want that to the same extent (which is reasonable). But in your situation...I would say your piscean is experiencing some inner turmoil. Maybe he loves you but at the same time he wants some space. Perhaps he doesn't know the right balance. Maybe being with you is making him feel like he has no space...and maybe this friend of his is suggesting to him that he needs to be a little bit more independent. Therefore, he's pushing you away. Also remember, pisces tend to be a bit self-punishing. Sometimes they want something so much...but they won't let themselves have it. It's almost like self-punishment....they behave like they don't deserve the thing they really want. And I know from my own experiences....when I'm like that, I get very cranky and moody. Maybe what you're experiencing is something similar. I do not know how to help him get over it. Just be there for him...but do not pity him for being in such a mood. Tell him to snap out of it. To be clear as to what he wants. Be a little bit harsh...it will help bring him down to earth. Tell him you need a definite answer as to whether or not you're together anymore. If he says he wants to break up...break up with him....sever all ties. Don't let him keep coming back. He needs to learn to control some of his moods and be a bit more on earth when it comes to earthly things. He needs to learn to make decisions. Simply tell him straight that you need to know where you stand. Don't put up with this kind of behaviour. We are very moody, but it really isn't acceptable...nor is it fair to our partners.

I hope this helped...it's a little bit hard to explain how we function....

Answer 5

first off do not take what he has been doing to you personal. pisces have addictive personalities and when they go down that road can be consumed with self destruction and self sabbatoge. basically they become there own worst enemy.

you stand for all the positive things in his life and if he is lashing out against that, its only natural he is going to take some of that blunt force out on you. he is pushing you away because he is self destructing...

best thing you can do for him is put to use some of your stable taurus moon and pull this boy back down to earth before that pisces in him floats away, especially with that aries influence in him that move in full force the exact direction he wants to. try to level with him and let him see what you see, but remember pisces are sensitive so the strong leo yelling, and accusing, pointing fingers will only cause him to retreat to a place you can not find him let alone reach him.

virgo risings are perfectionists so maybe letting him know he is falling down in a caring loving non judgmental way will get him motivated to want to make things right again. after all those qualities that can become self destructive can also be put to great use as well, whatever this guy sets his mind to can be accomplished whether positive or negative. tap into your master of manipulation scorpio rising and devise a plan that cant fail, just make sure you act quickly before he slips away too deep.