A question about Perception vs. Reality?

Question

To the ladies.....

How often do you think your husband masturbates?

And to the ladies who say they have s*x with their Husband everyday please do not tell me that you think it is ZERO! If you believe that then you are in dream world.

Also, How many women m********e and does your husband even know that you do? ( masturbation with your husband as a part of s*x does not count)

The reason I am asking this question is because I really do think the genders have some major misconceptions about each others needs and wants when it comes to s*x, intimacy, and personal gratification.

Answer 1

he says zero, because he gets it whenever he wants.. but if he does it I dont mind.

he knows when I do it, because I will tell him..

but yes people have different wants and needs when it comes to s*x. my s*x drive is higher than his and quite often find myself sexual frustrated...and thats when my toys come in handy.

Answer 2

I know my husband doesn't m********e very frequently -- we're pretty open and honest with one another when it comes to this.  We have s*x pretty frequently, and he's satisfied.  I'd say he probably masturbates once a week, or once every couple of weeks.

As far as I go, I personally do not m********e at all.  I know, I know -- you're all shocked.  I really don't though.  I do m********e as a part of s*x with my husband for foreplay, however I do not m********e when I'm alone solely for my own pleasure or enjoyment.

Hope it helps.

Answer 3

I think my husband rarely does it because when I have asked him to it takes him forever to tell me about it...he is not "in the mood" every night like I am tho....unfortunately...

Answer 4

To be honest, I know he does it, but I don't know how much.  And I really don't care.  (I also know it is not zero...if I had to take a guess I would say probably 3 or 4 times a week, if not more.)  He knows I do it....kinda hard not to know that when I drawer full of "fun" in my nightstand, but that it is a rare occasion I do it.  Usually the only time those really get used is when he is deployed.