A question about feng shui?

Question

I am in a 3 year relationship with my loving boyfriend. We used to be so much into each other and shared such a great love but now everything has changed. Since about 2 years we always quarrel about small things, only later realizing how stupid it was. He even calls me ***** now. He used to love me more than his life and he does even now. I think there is something wrong with how our houses are arranged. We both moved to new houses and that is exactly when the problems started.

Does feng shui have any solution for our problem?

What are the remedies I can use.

How to properly arrange my room and house according to feng shui?

Answer 1

move back to the old house.

fengshui is not about the arrangment of the furnitures inside the house. it is about where your house is located in what kind of structure/ environment, where the door is located and faced (in the 360 degrees - specific direction, where the chi or energy flows into your house and either make you lucky or unlucky in life), how the rooms are arranged in the house. so, your old house might be conducive for a good relationship and your new house don't have it. how to go about it? hire a fengshui practitioner to do an audit, and see what is wrong with your new house. there are no general diy or guidelines to make your house have good fengshui. everything in fengshui is specifically measured, calculated and analyzed. but sometimes, like what happened in your old house, it is luck or by accident, you are just lucky to have that old house that have good effects on you.

i don't recommend remedies like mirrors and windchimes, bec they create more harm than good, making your life more complicated.

Answer 2

You should analyze your home according to the 8 Mansions and Flying Stars system of Feng Shui. This will help you to know if some sector needs to be harmonized using the five elements.

You should also both sleep in one of your favorable directions, best in this case is the Yan Nian directions responsible for relations.

You can find all information as well as Feng Shui calculators here:

Answer 3

Sit in a chair across from him, maybe in the kitchen and talk about it.

Answer 4

I'm an architect here in the philippines, and basically, most chinese here and filipinos alike practice feng shui. They often asked me to incorporate the designs based on the feng shui principle. On your situation, the bed shoud not be position in between the windows and your bedroom should not be above the kitchen stove to avoid quarrel.

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