A question about my dreams?

Question

my first ex husband left me for someone 12 yr older than we were.. that was 25 yrs ago.. i also wanted to get even.. although i wish they would stay together forever..and they have.. she even gave him a child that was not his..one thing he always wanted..he was sterile..she cheated and when we were together i could not do that..any ways lately i have been dreaming about him.. last month i ran across his mother and brother.. they live a cross my mom at her apt.. small world.. i know..they lived there 4 yrs and no one knew.thing is in my dream i am not getting even.. getting along..with him and the husband stealer..what gives?

Answer 1

In dreams our subconscious often expresses our unfulfilled wishes.

Your unfulfilled wish is to be back together with him.

Answer 2

And your avatar looks so young also. You ran into his mother and brother. Brings up old memories. Getting along is your subconscious mind telling you that you have moved on and no longer really care anymore. Since you have seen what he looks like now. Getting along with her is your mind   saying thanks for taking him.

So where do you live. Hmmm

Mine left for a guy 15 years older. I hope they stay together to. I'd even like to thank him. I became allot happier in life. In my dreams, we get back together and I'm saying like oh h**l no.

He deserves all the happiness she'll give him. My daughter once said I aged better than her {pre divorce} Told her yes and to never tell her mom.

No, you don't sound shallow to me. Ah maybe but I know how ya feel. 19 married going on 3 single and happy as a lark.