A question for Bisexuals .?

Question

hey all i have a question,

What do you guys think about all this Bi bashing?

Like when people say it s not a lifestyle,

it doesnt invovle emotion,

it doesnt exist,

it s a cop-out,

being called "greedy",

confused and can't chose,

and that it s a "trend".

FYI: i am a proud bisexual female,

but when i hear things like this is wish people could just understand this is who i am and this is how i live my life,

when i love it TRULY isnt based on gender.

i just feel, is that a crime?

;]

Answer 1

well, it sucks. especially when they say it isnt real or they are denying they are really g*y.and ect.

i do not cheat.

i do not mess with emotions.

i do not date both at the same time.(cheat)

if i am unsure of what i want, i choose to remain single.

i have a first three month no s*x rule. so i dont just want s*x.

i i am not greedy. i care about others.

i have loved members from both sexes very deeply.

i love the person not their s*x.

the trend sucks. there are alot of fake bisexuals who are giving the real bisexuals a bad name. the real bisexuals arent any of those thing. and if they are, then its the individual that should be judged no the whole bisexual community.

but people are gonna think whatever they want of my and my sexual orientation. at the end of the day, i am sure of me, and my sexuality. people can say what they want, but only i know me. and thats what matters.

Answer 2

well as long as u r clear on what u want and who u r i think u shouldn't mind what people think. if u r in a relationship i think u should be honest about it to ur partner... but other than that i don't think it's any1's business but ur own who u have s*x with

Answer 3

ppl are cruel.  

Answer 4

I say baloney - those are people who just don't understand that being bi is a way to double your pleasure~!

Answer 5

It's bierasure, the systematic attempt to remove references to bisexuality to further influence the monosexist agenda.

It's probably beyond the reading level of most people in Y!A, but I recommend, strongly:

The epistemic contract of bisexual erasure.

http://www.kenjiyoshino.com/articles/epi...

Answer 6

i completely agree.  I'm bisexual but i'm in a loving committed relationship with a female and couldn't be happier!

Answer 7

I try not to let it bother me, but honestly it does make me think twice about who I come out to. To me, being bisexual is beautiful, I can enjoy the energy of men but at the same time appreciate the beautiful delicate nature of a woman. I think there's plenty of emotion there. I think people tend to "bi-bash" because there's so many girls out there who go around getting drunk hooking up with girls and then saying they're bisexual. Obviously if you need to be intoxicated, you are probably not bi, girls just want to do it because they think guys are turned on by it. I am definitely not confused, I'm not walking around in a daze like duuuu boys or girls? haha. I don't surround myself with people who don't accept me, I don't need that in my life. I absolutely love being bisexual and I know the truth, that's enough for me.

Answer 8

Its annoys me, bisexuality is a sexuality in its own right, we are not confused, greedy and not using it as a cop out, we just like males and females...

Answer 9

erasing bisexuality is a crime

bi pride ^.^