A question for adult male's?

Question

Please read below and give me your opinion and thought's on this; I have searched online and can't come across the answer.

My husband told me that he could never ejaculate or get an erection to looking at another nude women. I didn't believe ofcoarse... So I tested him. He sat upon his knee's and looked directly into the screen as I showed him many triple X rated pictures of women. These picture's were very graphic in detail. Some were just nude women standing or laying in a s**y manner, some were in act's with men.

Answer 1

a full erection often will not happen with just p**n, some stimulation is needed

but seriously, that would be odd, we as guys could always get off to another women

Answer 2

What I want to know is why you're so paranoid about this??

Do you WANT him to get an erection from other women??

To answer your question -- yes, a man can control getting an erection.

Its basically just mind over matter.  Some part of getting an erection is by touch and sight, but its also mainly thoughts.  If you think about something else that's not arousing, it will stop you from getting an erection.

Hope that helps.

Answer 3

Well for some men, p**n does not do a thing. I knew a guy who was totally straight but even when he watched p**n or looked at mags while stimulating himself he was never able to get off. And he was a guy in his early 20's so he was always horny. It all just depends on the person and what they like.

Answer 4

I never get a full erection, even if i m********e, unless i am in the act of about to have s*x, or having s*x

however, he may be controlling it, which is possible.  There really are no signs, besides asking him questions about the photos such as "Do her nipples look like they would taste good?"  Ask him questions that require him to analyze the picture.  He could be thinking about something else to control the erection

Answer 5

u can control it to a certain degree.

Answer 6

It's possible that he only has eyes for you and there's nothing wrong with that. This only means that he's respectful and a trustworthy husband. Staring at a nude woman for that long will cause a man's body to become aroused. As the first answer said, they can control it for a while, but soon his hormones and body would win and he'd become erect. Even if he was to control it, his body would eventually o****m. Warming lubrication and your touch probably did send him over the edge. Trust him and be thankful for a man like him. Hope this helps.

Answer 7

You asked for my thoughts, so here goes.  I wonder what exactly your problem is.  Are you so insecure that you would submit your man to this sort of degrading "test"?

And is he such a p***y-whipped wuzzy that he would allow you to do this?

My final thought:  I could never have gotten it up with you in the room.

Sorry.

Answer 8

doesn't sound normal to me, but yes it's not that hard to focus on other things if you're trying to prove a point

Answer 9

why is it such a big problem for you?? Boys will be boys...forever!  

Answer 10

he can control it do a degree but i wouldnot have texted that thats kinda whorish on ur part he loves u and u do this is this even true

Answer 11

He can control it if he just sees, but does not concentrate, ie, thinks about anything else, bills, work, wonder away and does not concentrate on the pic.He can control the erection. Your jacking did work, good job could be true, warm lube and your touch. Good luck.