A question for all the boyfriends / men out there!?

Question

I dress how my boyfriend of oer a year calls "classy". That means, skinny jeans, tight shirts that don't reveal too much, occasionally heels, etc... He recently said that he wished I dressed a little sluttier when we went out. I am NOT the kind of girl who wears turtlenecks or covers up, so this kind of offended me!! I have a decent body but don't feel comfortable showing it off, plus my job requires modest dress. So I guess my question is: boyfriends, would you want your girlfriend to dress sluttier when you went out??

P.S. -- underneath my clothes, my underwear is not so innocent ;)

Answer 1

If I did have a girlfriend i would want her to dress the way she fills best. But if it was just us at her house or if i had my own place only if she  wanted to. Dress THE way you want

Answer 2

it's just appealing to reveal something but leave things to the imagination. You shouldn't be offended by this it's just he thinks your flattering.

It's nice to know that you wear thongs/g-strings  

Answer 3

Sometimes I wish my wife would wear shorter skirts,, but not sluttier. Modest is the way to go. Modest dress will get you farther than showing off your b***s or legs.

Answer 4

um, no i wouldn't want my gf to dress S****y. i would want her to cover up either unless she wanted to. really i would want her to wear what she wants unless it was weird or ugly ****. id be Happy with what you said, tight jeans and a tight shirt. i would get pissed if my gf dressed S****y at all really. theres a line between showing off my hot gf and asking them to please rape her.

Answer 5

well there are cloths for work there is cloths to knock around at home..then there are cloths to wear when out with the boyfriend. i dont call dressing s**y S****y.....you can go out with him and dress s**y with out being S****y...he shouldnt used the word S****y....he just should have said lets go shopping and find some s**y things for you to wear when we go out...so i say it dont hurt to do a little dress up for him from time to time you can have some fun with it..guys are visual and like to see s**y things and your his s**y thing so let him have his fun..and you never know you may have fun with it too..good luck

Answer 6

Try revealing a little more but not so much that you're uncomfortable. My girlfriend also wears s**y underwear and bras. But occasionally she will wear a skirt and no underwear and then let me discover it. That is a total turn on!  

Answer 7

I know that you want Guy answers, but I personally wanted to tell you, it's a good thing he said that.. he doesn't want you to dress like a "s**t" just show off a little, he thinks you're s**y, wants to show you off.. You're probably a beautiful girl and he's proud. Even though you don't feel like totally comfortable just be a little risky.. at times, he'll love it! :) good luck!  

Answer 8

You can't be what you aren't and there's good evidence you shouldn't be. You're classy and that's rare and ever so attractive.

How about this: tell him that if he wants you to start dressing a little more revealingly, then he should do it to. You won't have to walk around in a thong unless he does. :)

Good luck.  

Answer 9

I wouldn't want my wife to dress sluttier, I would only want her to wear things that accentuate her goods.

He may want you to dress sluttier only to make other guys jealous of whom he's with which is mostly what guys want.

Let him know how far you can go and he'd have to deal with that.