A question for any mediums out there.?

Question

Hi, a friend of mine died a while ago and it had a huge effect on me, I miss him so much!

I would like to try to contact him through a medium..I do believe that certain people have the gift so I would be careful who I went to. I'm just wondering of when you speak to the medium are you able to ask the spirit questions through them..or does the spirit just say what they have to say and thats it? I have a few questions that I would love to know the answers too..but fear I never will.

I understand that many people don't believe in this kind of thing and thats fine...but I would just like to hear back from people who do believe and are able to answer my question if thats ok as this is a subject that is quite distressing to me, thanks :o) x

Answer 1

a genuine medium can not guarantee your friend will come though you could get a great-grandparent of yours or another relative. You cannot hold a conversation with the person though the medium

they return to prove there is live after death

Answer 2

As a medium, I have to say you can not always guarantee who is going to come through.Also If I was doing a reading for you I would prefer to know nothing whats so ever.

Just because a person has passed on they don't loose their personality , they just have a bigger picture. if you want to know any more I am more than happy for you to contact me.

Answer 3

Don't waste your time and money...these people will rip you off....of course they can't contact the dead but prey on desperate, bereaved people like yourself.

Many will refute this claim and try to persuade you otherwise....it's in their (financial) interests to do so.

Don't be duped!

Answer 4

No medium can contact a specific spirit, and at best can onlly pass on to you whatever they are able to pick up. Contact your local  Spiritualist Church and attend the services.  If you have a message from the other side, you will recieve it safely and with minimum costs.  Good luck.  Your  comfort is waiting for you.

Answer 5

Hey there, usually, when someone visits a medium then they are usually able to channel a message to the person.  However, personally speaking, I would be tempted to go to a Spiritualist Church as it is a way that you will be able to receive messages (if someone comes through for you) without paying lots of money.  

Failing that, again, you could contact a Spiritualist Church to find out of local mediums or could visit an mind, body, soul shop again, to see if the staff there could recommend anyone for you.

Dependent on the medium, you are usually allowed to ask questions after the channeling has happened.  In my experience, usually I find that spirit will give me a message or will give me visual aids to get the message across.  Let the medium do the work for you, let them give you the message first before you ask questions.  

Good luck honey, I hope that you find what it is that you are looking for.

Answer 6

Listen sweetness, lots and lots of people out there like to pray on people like you. Don't let people out there know you are desperate. I used to read tarot cards for free but haven't done it in about a year. Not b/c of money, but b/c of lack of time and people to read for. I would never do it for those who thought what I said was in concrete. Even those who say they are mediums can't FOR SURE say it's who your wanting to talk to b/c if a spirit is close and wants something to say badly, they will and don't have to say anything but what they want. It's not like they are under our power and will say what we want. So do be careful. I've met lots of  nut jobs and very few real people. DON'T PAY ANY MONEY for ANYTHING online. And don't believe these people that tell you that you have a curse and they need $500 to remove a curse. If they really want to help, they will not hold back b/c of money. Good luck honey and BE CAREFUL.....

Answer 7

I used to be a medium, now I'm an XXL. Hahaha. Sorry.