A question for bisexual people?

Question

Do you often feel like you need to hide the fact that you are bi, because people will judge you or think you are easy to get into bed, or that you are into three somes, into weird s*x, or generally 'just not fussy'? I find that people make these assumptions about bi people (including me) all the time, and I don't know why. How do you feel?

Answer 1

Im a 100% g*y. not bi by any chance.. but still id like to answer your question that highlights the prejuidice against Bisexuals. When homosexuals fight for their rights and argue that their sexuality is atributed to their genes... tehy forget that so is the case with bisexiuality.

s*x is just a part of life... and promiscuicity is a commonplace. g*y straight bi... no bar.  

I am yet to find a g*y man who has not slept with anyone. or has just slept with one. and they point fingers at people who have teh gutts to proclaim their sexuality. their sexuality which is bi.  

Answer 2

I feel the same way you do.

Im actually Bi-Curious so im not sure im bi.

Only two people know which are my two bestfriends and there bi.

My friends tell evryone proudly but im scared people will think in un-normal and call me like a f*g or something. and I live in a small town so word travels fast.

Answer 3

So in your case, what is wrong about their assumptions?

What are your 'bedding' criteria?

Answer 4

Sure..people stereotype all the time...especially bisexual women. Most straight men automatically assume we want a threesome....and most straight women look at us as promiscuous.

But in my personal...27 years of life...I've never felt a need to hide my sexual prefrences from anyone. Do i shout it from the rooftops for random people to know? absolutely not. But if someone asks...or if becomes a topic of conversation...i don't hesitate in letting people know who and what i really am. Let them judge me if they choose. anyone who views me in a bad light...I don't need them in my life anyway.

Currently i am dating a man...and he loves that i choose NOT to participate in threesomes. He not only respects my true sexual prefrence...but respects ME because I want HIM...not him and someone else.

I think you'll find, that the majority of people worth spending time and feelings on (whether casual friends, random people or family) won't make assumptions about you. They will just accept you and take the time yto know YOU and not judge you based on a sexual prefrence.

Answer 5

The same

people try to take advantage of us just because we love both sexes. I mean just because we admire both sexes, doesn't mean we're addicted to s*x or anything lol

Its pathetic.

Answer 6

Well I don't see any difference in the s*x drive of Bi-sexuals and straight folk.

Answer 7

no, i don't hide it.  if someone doesn't like it, then so be it, but i'm not trying to please them.

people will always make up their own opinions about bisexual people...but they would just have to experience it themselves to know how it really is.

it's not confusing, it doesn't mean you're "easy"...

Answer 8

i used to think that before i realised i was bi myself . the reason i used to think that was because it was what people always said when talking about bi people, when i was growing up. so i just automatically believed them, of course now i know that the things they said is complete bull5hit.  

Answer 9

People are judge mental...and anyways...straights don't need to tell anyone their orientation because everyone assumes that you're straight.

Answer 10

I think it is way more socially acceptable to be a bi female than g*y. (or even straight maybe)....