My name is Christine M., and my fiance (Cal Sr.) has 7 children. Their mother died 5 years ago of cancer, and I'm the first new addition to their small family. They're very close, and while the eldest (Mary, 17) likes me because I've convinced her father to let her have her hair died, get a cell phone, facebook, etc. and the next eldest (Cal Jr., 15) likes me cause know he can play football, I get the feeling the younger 5 don't like me as much. I have never had any children, and this is my first 'family'. I was an only child growing up, and I had one cousin, 12 years my senior.
I was wondering how to best get the children to like me. The youngest two barely remeber their mother, but the middle 3 loved her and remeber her, and I don't want them to think I'm dishonering her. I had hoped the older two would convince them that I'm okay, and it's worked a little on the third eldest, but the 10 year old twins remain staunchly against me, and they are influincing the younger ones against me
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