A question for teen mothers?

Question

Do you ever feel like you missed out on life since you had a child young?

Answer 1

cant truley answer your question but im 18 and preg. and happy ^^ i dont feel like i will miss out on anything , only gain

Answer 2

I am 21 now with a 4 yr old daughter,a 1 yr old daughter,and 8 months pregnant with another daughter and I don't feel like I have missed out on anything in life because everything worth doing or worth looking forward to,I can do with my girls and be just as happy doing it as I would if I didn't have children.

Answer 3

straight up at times i do, i see how ppl always talk bout going out and all this stuff and im stuck at home with my son, but at the end im glad i had him, he better then any party!

Answer 4

umm sometimes i feel like just pulling my hair out because i have nobody here but i don't think i missed out on too much right now i live in pa and i don't know anybody out her all of my people are in fl so i really don't ever get a break from my son I'm with him 24 7 no lie I'm a stay at home mom and sometimes it does really get to me and i don't really have someone to talk to that can relate to my situation I'm 18 and have an 8 month old son

Answer 5

I had my son when I was 18 and I always felt like I had missed out until my 17 yr old sister had her baby and she just lets him stay with whoever so she can still do her thing and then i realized I didnt miss out she is missing out on the most wonderful experience in the world watching her child grow up.....I am now 22 and would not change anything that I did so what if i missed out on some hang overs I think I will live and I probably got the same kind of feeling with those 2 am feedings!!l lol....And I am currently 36 weeks pregnant with baby #3!!

Answer 6

I had my son at 19 and I definetly think I missed out on a lot of things but I also know if it weren't for him I might not be the person I am today. He is sooooo worth it all. Going out and doing this and that gets old but having that child is forever. I am now 25 and I have a 5 year old son, a 1 year old daughter, I'm 22 weeks pregnant and my husband is in the Army and deploys to Iraq all the time and the only ones that get me through it is my kids. Enjoy them they grow up so fast.

Answer 7

Nope not at all. Im just 18- 7 months pregnant- married -to the love of my life since 2005.

I dont think Ill ever feel like I missed out on anything.

because im getting something some people never have the chance to get. that special binding bonding love of a child.

Id never trade that in for anything in this world.

Answer 8

i graduated when i was only 2 months pregnant at 16 thanks to homeschooling, but i didnt know i was pregnant i was having alot of trouble in public schools.   i dont think i missed out but it is hard to be able to go hang out with friends and alot of males arent attracted to you because of the concept u have a kid, it aint easy at all but its a responsibility i know is mine. my family watch my daughter for two nights once a month so i get a break (her father isnt around anymore) i honestly love being a momma and i dont think that i missed out on anything

Answer 9

i could not care less what people think but i had my first at 17.she was planned i am now pregnant again with a planned baby..i grew up very very different than people.i never missed anything but i can tell you i really really miss sleep..my daughter is my world and i really do not mind having her at my side all day every day!all she does is bring me company and happiness as corny as it sounds.i know not all feel the same but as i said sitting at home or going to the park is better than any party or club c**p any day.besides if i did want to do something like that babysitters do exsist!

oh yea i graduated high school at 15 and i start college in about a week i am now 18 my daughter is 11 months and i am 13 weeks pregnant and married living on my own

Answer 10

There are times when I feel like I missed out.

I don't regret having my son at all.

He is the best thing that has happened to me.

I got pregnant at 15 and had my son a few weeks after my 16th birthday.

Life is a series of surprises, life is something you plan out.

It all happens for some reason.

Answer 11

It's not easy but I love my son (5 days old)! So I'm ok with giving up the fun party life..plus he didn't ask to be here. So I'm willing to make sacrifices for him

Answer 12

Yes, but I would not trade them now for anything.

Answer 13

I love my Daughter more than anything. Once I found out I was pregnant, I got my butt into gear and did everything I could to make sure I had everything together. I really don't feel like I missed out on anything. I'm 17 (almost 18) and I graduated high school and I'm in college, earning my teaching degree. I want my Daughter to have the best life possible. I never partied or anything, so I didn't have to give that up. While I don't condone teen pregnancy, because being a Mother is hard work (no matter what age you are), I don't regret my Daughter AT ALL! I love her so much, she is my life. I don't feel like I missed out on anything, my World was empty until I had her. She was what was missing.