A question for the GUYS please?

Question

There is this women who I know who flirts with me all the time BUT (There is always a but) She is Friends with my girlfriend.

My question is how can I "have a go of her" without getting caught.

any tips please.

I know it is well risky but that adds to the buzz.

Answer 1

i have a better idea! dump your current GF and go for the girl that flirts with you.

moron, grow up.  

Answer 2

girls hate each other.  That is why she flirts with you, despite knowing you SHOULD be off the menu.  If you play with her, she will tell your g/friend.

Answer 3

Have a go? meaning what?

date? ok, but no crazy things. be loyal to girlfriend, just a normal going out. will do

s*x? wish you get AIDS, hahaha!

My brother is having 4 girlfriends and they know of each other's existence and whereabouts but they don't fight each other or crack my bro's head. I dunno how he did that.

Answer 4

And this is why you will get the b word.

Look you have two choices, either go and sow your wild seeds OR choose your monogamous lifestyle (unless your g'friend is into swapping or such).  

You are pretty much not going to get both.  

So make your choice...

Answer 5

you could try, but you know women, they will collude and you will be in trouble.

Answer 6

Sorry pal but I think she's a spy for your girl. WATCH OUT!

you could be alone quick.

Answer 7

If you do it you will get caught!

Answer 8

lmao @ wild oats....

well im an expert in this field as of 2 days ago i did what you are looking to do.... basically you have to isolate her from your girlfriend in a situation where only you 2 are alone, its tough to do but create diversions and make it happen. it has to be on the spot and if you have enough game/ shes messed up enough, then you can do it

Answer 9

Remember this Pup, most girls and ladies love to tell.

Answer 10

first of all you need to check how secretive she is. give her a piece of info on someone that is made up, make it something thatd be hard not to tell another person and tell her to keep quiet. if it doesnt get around you can trust her. its a bad situation your getting yourself into but you know the consequences. look up seduction dating, nlp and other seduction methods and they have ideas for you to implant thoughts in her mind and what to say/do to hook up. realize that their friends and friends and especially women talk... especially when they dont get what they want or get angry. best of luck and have fun.

Answer 11

(special note to chivalry, your brother has the spirit. some are born with it, others cultivate it. plus the 4 women all share a similar mindset.)

i have a couple of suggestions

her being friends with your girlfriend is the biggest obstacle.

1. talk to her and your girlfriend and their other friends to see how free she is with her activities. find out if she can be trusted. because her flirting could be a test that she and your girlfriend have devised for you. the flirting could be innocent , so find out if she actually is interested in you. maybe some open ended questions, reading body language, etc.

observe and learn and then maybe you can go for it without her telling your girlfriend.

this next is real player talk(only to be used if your confidence and charisma are at peak efficiency)

openly date them both.

I cant really tell you how because its not a method.

it depends on your girlfriend's personality and how strong your charisma really is. there are two ways:

one is to tell your girlfriend that you still want to date her but see other people as well. just to add some spice and variety to the relationship.  this means you have to be able to accept her doing the same as you.

or, you can put your girlfriend on lock.

which means you have her so attached to you that she will not mind you dating another woman as long as she gets her time.

this is difficult because the woman has to be somewhat open-minded, completely in love, somewhat weak-willed, and/or non-dominant, and you have to have full confidence in yourself.

the danger in this is that your girl could lie about accepting it.

the reason why i recommend the second way instead of the first is because having to hide it means that if you get caught you might have major problems.

good luck.