A question for the aries man?

Question

I have been dating this aries man, i have known him all my life, he is one of the best guys I have ever dated and am beginning to develope feelins for him. O kay, now i told him this, last night, when he was drinking, well this am he is saying hes a waste of time and not worth the worry, and don't want to dissapoint me, giving me warning. etc. well i jnow he likes me and i also know that any women would be lucky to catch his heart. I just don't know if he is affraid of messing up or if he is saying he aint in to me?? I mean we get along great, physically, emotionally, intellectually, we get along great! Why is he warning me? I'd like to believe that he is scared? oh yeah, I am also an aries, 7 days older

Answer 1

Perhaps he isn't ready to commit. From what I understand, Fire signs enjoy to be free and value their independence just as much as any Air sign does. Maybe he could be telling you that because perhaps he wishes you to compliment him? Again, from what I have personally experienced, Fire signs have rather large egos that need to be fed and stroked every so often. Then again, maybe he has had relationship problems and is only giving you a warning about how he is in a relationship. I know Aries can be a little loud, controlling and get easily angry. My brother is an Aries and he has the worst anger problem like my Dad who is a Scorpio/Sagittarius cusp with a moon in Aries. So yeah, I have been around Aries and you guys should consider someone who is more stable and more grounded instead of fuiling fire with fire. Its just a suggestion, you don't have to listen to have I have to say after all. If you like him, and if he likes you, then go for it and try your hardest. If it is not meant to be then no big deal, there are plenty of other people out there too. Good luck.