A question for the guys?

Question

Hi there,

I'm getting married in 9 weeks. My partner has expressed that hes very scared of marriage, to the point of almost crying. I very worried hes going to change his mind about us and want to cancel the wedding. Or is these feelings normal?

Answer 1

I felt the same before i was married. You are not worried for the ceremony itself, but for all the responsibilities that comes with it. Today, i have been married for 12 years.

Age has a LOT to do with it (adulthood), you didn´t mentioned his age.

Answer 2

its is a bit overwhelming for men. Alot of guys feint during the ceramony more then women as a matter a fact.  I'm pretty sure that since he asked you to marry him that he wont change his mind.   Just encourage him and be there for him.

Answer 3

its normal thoughts

Answer 4

Wow.  I don't think marriage any of the times I tried it were so scary I felt like crying or having an emotional breakdown.

There is something bothering him, and after being together for three years you would think he would be running with you down the aisle.

Feeling nervous or apprehensive okay but you two need to have an actual conversation without holding back.

Answer 5

well, i was a man once, so i think i can help you.

theyre perfectly normal

hes just nervous

Answer 6

if he loves you, he will get over it.

if hes a real man, he will get over it.

Answer 7

Well can you blame him, because if you get a divorce then he's gonna lose half of his things or more