A question on physical examination?

Question

I recently changed family doctor and had a full physical exam on the 1st visit. After the usual exam, he then asked me to pull down my jeans and underwear and checked my package. He pulled up the shaft, and squeezed my balls etc, he even asked me to turn around lay down and checked my behind. It was my 1st time being touched by another guy like that, and for some reason I found it very arousing. Do you think I am g*y? Any similar experience you guys can share? I'm 19.

Answer 1

no, i dont think you are g*y. that area is just very sensitive to touch. there are thousands of nerve endings in the genital region. arousal happends even for no apparent reason. its part of being human. while you were getting examined, you probably were feeling aroused at the same time for no apparent reason, which made things awkward at the time.

but then again, i cant judge you. only you would know if you are g*y or not. but from what you described, i really dont think you are.

ive read some of your other questions. they all revolve around "g*y tendencies". you sound really insecure/confused about yourself. you need to relax.

ask yourself this: are you attracted to guys? would you rather date a guy over a pretty girl? this will determine everything. you shouldnt focus completely on random/awkward feelings/

Answer 2

Hard to say really.  The actual physical process could be arousing in itself, simply as a result of reflexes.  Then there's the question of whether you are going to choose to define your sexuality in those terms.  I am generally only weakly aroused by either s*x and am in a sense asexual, but the issue for me, on the arousal front, is to do with what happens and what it means more than the gender of the person involved, theoretically.  I was touched up by a boy on the school bus when i was about twelve and found it invasive, but that was the manner in which it was done more than what was actually done, if you see what i mean.   On other occasions, i've been very "taken" by certain males (same age as me but dependent on my age) but didn't look at it as sexual attraction at the time.

I am a health professional and there are reasons why someone might do that exam, but it's not part of the usual routine.  All i've usually done is to check for hernias.  I won't say more out of respect for your confidentiality.  I wonder if he was screening for something specific.

Answer 3

not really!

I think you got turned on because that area is very sensitive to touch and the Dr. was trying to be genital with you. the last Dr. that did that exam on me, it  felt the same but I did not wont to sleep with the Dr. although me was good looking.  

Answer 4

Not at all. Being g*y is more than responding to a physical touch, especially in very sensitive areas of your body. Plus I remember well being 19, I could get aroused in math class but I didn't want to do it with my math book (or the professor for that matter - yuk). Being g*y means being physically, emotionally and mentally attracted to people of the same s*x and being equally as disinterested in the opposite s*x. If you are more attracted to men than women, then that's something to think about too. Either way, you're who you are and you should be proud of that.