my boyfriends granny just died this morning, wed 3 september at 12.05pm and his mum and me are extremely close, im only 24 and ive never dealt with death that well and im sure no one else has, but my b/fs mum wants me to go down to the wake house tomorrow where her mum is laid out and also wants me to bring my two boys (her grandsons) the oldest turned 4 on the 17th of august and the youngest is 15 months, i dont think its a good idea but my b/f and his mum want us all down. It was a complete shock to the system today and i cant help myself for crying and im also worried when i go in and see all the family i will break down. We were all so close even though its my b/fs family, so is it a good idea to bring my kids down, their daddy explained to my oldest that the granny down the point with all the hens(she had a farm) is in heaven now but he does not understand and im terrified if he tries to talk to her and she is just lying there he will be scared. Please help and no smart answers as we are in bits and grieving at this time, thank you for your support and answersxx
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