A relationship question, I am so confused and i don't even know what to think or do for that matter?

Question

or is this something to be worried about.

me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and 7 months now, I'm 5 months pregnant and expecting a little girl!

we have our disagreements and arguments (but all couples do right?) but they're are sometimes when it just seems like he's intentionally trying to make me cry, then while I'm crying or feeling bad i'd be up all night thinking or crying my eyes out, right next to him in bed and i know he hears me crying but sometimes he doesn't comfort me like he does.

then they're are times when it's like he doesn't even want to be in the same room as me, i'd walk into our bedroom and he's in there on the bed and I'd lay down going to take a nap and he'd leave the room.

or when i go into the living room and he's in there watching television and i just sit down and start watching it with him he go's in the room or outside to do something in the yard.

I love him very much and most of his actions tell me he loves me a lot too. I mean I'm living with him and his parents (for now) and i don't have any money and he's the one who takes care of me you know?

I'm very grateful to him and his parents. they treat me like we're married and everything when we're not (i guess the plan is that we'll get married one day but not any time soon cause we're both just 18.

it's just that when we fight or argue sometimes he go's too far and i just put up with it and forgive him like it was nothing. when i shouldn't, but then again he apologizes and i know he can be well i don't know a word for it. He says something without thinking when he should be thinking about what he says before he says it so he doesn't hurt anyone (like me)

i tell him about it but some how when he's mad he always ends up doing some time or another

i guess me question is if anyone out there in relationships have to deal with this too or if i'm in trouble.

this is my only long relationship, my first love and probably going to be the guy i'll never forget i mean i'm having a baby with him n all.

some one out there let me know something so i can stop feeling the way i'm feeling

(which is very confused) cause there's no way I'm asking my mother or anyone else older for advise to embarrassing

Lady's guys answer this for me please

Answer 1

First of all let me begin by saying congradualations to you on your baby :)

One thing that you need to learn is that men need time to themselves to think. When they get into this mode, do both of you a favor and give him some space. The more space you give him the more he will be drawn to you.

Next,  when a woman is pregnant her body goes through alot of changes that also affect her emotions. Your emotions may be up & down & all over the place and he may be trying to understand and cope with it.

Lastly, he has alot on his mind being 18 with an arriving baby. His parents may be talking to him behind the scenes with regards to getting a job, supporting the child, getting married, getting an apartment, getting you to see a doctor etc etc. so I wouldn't worry too much. Just keep showing him your devotion and your sexyness and you'll be just fine. Good luck.